He's really smart n georgeous. We had that sexual relationship. That was amazing. But now we've stopped coz he said he felt really guilty to his son, wife n family. I can understand but i feel used now. I feel unworthy. I feel like im just a sexual object. I'm really sad now. I still love him but sometimes I hate him so deeply. I know I have no future wt him but I still love, miss n think about him every single day. I hate myself coz Im so weak. I have got to pull myself together. Please help me!!!!!!
2006-08-31 22:02:42 · 13 answers · asked by melindamey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just get over it. You lost out in one match in the game of love. But the playing season isn't over. Pick your next adventure and enjoy it.
We are all sexual objects. A monogamous relationship can be very beautiful but t can also be torment, so be glad to lose out early instead of late in that game! Anyone who would break the marriage contract to be with you can not be serious about another contract. Why would you bet your heart on a sure-to-lose venture?
Be glad you had fun, be glad it didn't work out because that's what saved you more grief.
But don't get hung up on a lost cause, a match that is already over with. Head for the next match,play hard, win or lose, and keep on keeping on!
2006-09-01 09:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Just David 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't beat urself up. We all get into things we wished we hadn't.
Second. U do need to get over this man and move on. He has a wife and child. U should think about them anytime u feel u want him back. U wouldn't want someone breaking up ur home. It's one of those what u do comes back to u type situations.
He is trying to do right by his family and stop the affair.... so u need to let him do so.
It will be hard but in the long run u'll feel proud of urself for doing what was right.
2006-08-31 22:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by gyrlundone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't have a relationship because he wasn't really available in the beginning to start to give you one. He is a married man and until the day he is divorced you will never be together. Move forward and avoid contact with him.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-08-31 22:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i'm married yet in the previous being a married female, i could in no way have seen having an affair with a married guy. I constantly knew I deserved plenty extra suited and that i became in no way so affordable and in no way stooped to such low point.
2016-11-23 17:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked for it in the first place, upon knowing he is married.
Asked yourself, how will you feel if you are married and you found out some 19 yr old biatch slept with yr hubby?!
My goodness, search your conciousness please..
In this world, there is so many foolish naive girls that are being fooled by men willingly and cry foul...
You let this happen, this is the consequences.
I hope someday you get the same treatment too... then you know what is call "hurt"
2006-08-31 22:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Joan20 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just have to let go coz- he is another woman's man and u will end up chasing the wind. Go, search for your own man to marry.
2006-08-31 22:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by signorina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things are pretty clear .. you fell in love he doesn't love you or want you anymore.. You like it or not you were used just for sex.. you'd better get over him.. And if you want a lil revenge make sure his wife founds out about his darling hubby.... Good luck!
2006-08-31 22:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet his wife and child missed him to.
He knew what he was doing, you got hosed.
Now move on, and don't look back because he is
married, and to old for you. The Skunk.
2006-08-31 22:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U ANSWERED URSELF
U HAVE NO FUTURE WITH HIM
HE IS COMITTED TO SM1.
4GT AND MAKE NEW FRNZ
THATS THE ONLY WAY TO B HAPPY
U R A GROWN UP GIRL AND I KNOW U'LL TACKLE
2006-08-31 22:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get over it. a bit harsh i know but seriouslty, he is married, you need to move on, probably should never have gone ther in the first place but neither should he.
2006-08-31 22:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by Just John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋