2006-08-31 21:52:11 · 15 answers · asked by raj s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right and wrong isn't black and white, rvery single person on the planet, including the pope, lives in the gray area in between. They could be doing a lot worse things.
2006-08-31 21:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree it is wrong to have sex before marriage for religion and for yourself.
I also agree guys shouldnt have sex either cos its double standards. when you have sex you lost your innocence and purity.
People say yeah its good to have sex b4 marriage and 9 out of 10 look where its led them. They have chlamydia on the rise, underage pregnancy is the biggest in britain.
Some people meet the love of their lives.
If you meet a girl or a boy you really like and you find out he/she slept aound, come on wont that break your heart - i can go into details but a lot of you would agree with me. Its all emotions at the end of the day.
Medically and mentally its not right.
2006-09-01 05:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Objectively, It depends on the girl's culture; in some tribes the girl has to prove that she can bear children before she gets married but in the Western (Christian) world it is preferred that a girl be a virgin until she's married.
Subjectively, it depends on the girl's temperament; if she feels she needs it, she does it. Why should someone deprive herself of the joy of sex?
I personally find it right, provided you want it and know why you are doing it!
2006-09-01 04:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by ngiapapa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suppose it depends on the person. Some will feel that it's perfectly fine to have intercourse before marriage, while others, perhaps because of their religious views, will prefer to wait until after marriage. It depends upon the feelings and beliefs of the person. Hope that this helps...
2006-09-01 05:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the bible its wrong for both girls and boys to have sex before marriage, but when we face the reality it is happening so one just needs to play it safe. (condomise)
2006-09-01 04:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by popi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very wrong but our society says its ok. Such a sad state we are in.....God says it is wrong, much less all the diseases out there. Bring up your children close to the Lord or surely we will loose them for a time.
2006-09-01 04:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Godb4me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. if u r a christian u shud b saving it for ur husband. if not heres some good reasons. no std's, no aids, none of that crap, despite the worlds view u give a part of urself to hueva u hav sex with so dnt share urself with 20 guys! once its gone....its gone. u cnt get ur virginity bak...think of it as a precious gift that u r saving for that guy ur gonna b with foreva.
2006-09-01 04:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by jstwnnaknw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the western world it's not some but most. With other cultural background there are differences.
2006-09-01 04:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by ak2005ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the girl! its totally up to her. I'm not married.....though im engaged, and i have sex! however there are alot of girls who like to wait and thats good, they have self control, i dont.. lol!! so it depends on the person if it is right or wrong!!
2006-09-01 04:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by lz_baxter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong..but not only for girls the guys need to save it too
2006-09-01 04:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋