We share a genuine connection...she always smiles alot when she saw me ( not in contact , as she has a BF ) I am myself when i am with her & i love talking to her , being with her is awsome . I feel deeply for this woman , i have never felt like this before. I was confused at first , but i have done alot of thinking & i know in my heart that i truly love her very much, i think about her every day & miss her terribly . I am scared to call her at work, as this is the only contact number i have . I just dont like to pester , makes things worse...know what i mean ? the fact that i think her BF works with her too .I have heard he is a nasty piece of work & wont let her have any friends ...i am not like that at all !! I know that she likes me alot & she didnt exactly say no when i asked her out for just a coffee, nothing to pressurising. I admire her loyalty , i would expect that too. she is worth it guys ....the nicest woman i have met . I told her i was glad i met her...she said " awwww
2006-08-31 21:34:47 · 7 answers · asked by Si 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant DEEPLY lol !!!
2006-08-31 21:35:39 · update #1
Dear Friend,
Since she already has a bf, i recommend u to remain just friendly towards her. Ask yourself 1 question,"what do i have more, than that of her bf to impress her?" Then materialise on that.
If u cud impress her without changing much of your atitiude, slowly she wud come to u. Make sure u dont become desparate. B a gud friend to her. And since u often hang around with her, she will or might already know whats that connection between u and her. And definitely, if u cud impress her where her bf cant, u cud win her heart.
So b a gud boy, take your time, change your present atitude and and plan on what to do to impress her and win her heart.
Always remember, SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE.
good luck
2006-08-31 21:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bravo mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a friendship. You are not emotionally involved with this girl. She has a connection with another man, not you. Reguardless of your opinion of him she loves him and that is why she is with him. It is unlikely based on what you've written here that she understands the depth of your attraction to her more-or-less shares it. If you honestly want to discover if there could be something between you both you need to be boldly honest with her and not pussyfoot about. You should admit to her your feelings and tell her that you understand she's in a relationship but feel that she deserves your honesty.
If you have any chance with this woman you'll never get it until you can make your intentions known to her in a way she'll respect.
2006-08-31 21:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep on loving, but have no expectations. Love is a good thing. getting obsessed and dependent is dangerous. try to gain this feeling for everyone in your life. if you give enough love you will receive it back. don't count on her, pray for her happiness. You may be surprised. but if you are pushy and express you want your love returned then it's not love. express yourself and let it go.
2006-08-31 21:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the age of 30 only you comes know the answer
2006-08-31 21:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by nisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she knows you like her to some degree. but since she has a BF you just have to wait it out. soon enough she'll see your better as long as you dont get psycho on her. hang loose brah
2006-08-31 21:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Hawaiian21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have the sweetest, most adorable boyfriend in the world, but he isn't you...
2006-08-31 21:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by CC...x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to leave her for a week then if you can't bear it then you really love her
2006-08-31 21:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by soli17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋