Why do young people today have to degrade them self by putting sexy picture of them self, just to find love?
I want to be loved by someone as well, do I have to advertise sex just to get someone to love me.
There was to more to a relationship then just want sex, there has to be love!
2006-08-31 21:26:50 · 25 answers · asked by MJane21 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am talking about some of people's 360
from guys/girls
2006-08-31 22:02:32 · update #1
Don't be discouraged... I am one of some guys still out there who would rather have a woman of character, not one who showed the most skin and looked good in a bikini. Don't cave. I fight for Chivalry!
2006-08-31 21:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly if your looking for love on-line you've degraded yourself before you even post your sexy picture... You do not have to degrade yourself to find love... Sex is not something you should do with some stranger to pass the time it is something that people in a loving relationship do to show each-other love and affection... Have good morals, be a nice person and love will find you... You do not need to flash your bits all over the world to find love...
2006-09-01 04:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sad thing what's going on with todays youth.
They repeat what they learn from tv and popular culture, and those lessons are generally that the female is only good for one thing, sex.
You don't need to advertise sex to find someone to love you, but it may take you longer to find someone, you should know though, that when you do find someone, they will be a more decent person.
2006-09-01 04:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by dellamorte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to degrade yourself for love degrading your self is not you so how can somebody love the real YOU if you pretend to be something your not if this person make you feel degrade why O why in the hell would you want to put out for that. keep you self respect love will find you
2006-09-01 04:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, it's sad. A lot of people don't get the fact that it is not your bod or how good you are in bed that makes a person fall in love with you, it's the personality and how good of a companion you are. You can actually send a potential long-term relationship down the drain by becoming intimate before the social attraction has had a chance to mature.
2006-09-01 04:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Sierra Sun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one has to degrade themselves to find love. People who does that are stupid and desperate. There is a lot more to a relationship than sex. There has to be love, respect, friendship, honesty and trust in a good relationship.
2006-09-01 04:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think the best relationships come from people that you were friends with before. those are the people that have seen you with bad hair and no makeup in your pj's. of course you are still going to dress up when you go out. people who dress sexy to look for love are going about it the wrong way. i'd rather dress sexy because i like to look good and show off the body i worked hard to get and for no other reason.
2006-09-01 04:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People dont have to do this stuff to find love. They use it to get attention. The attention is misconstrued to be feelings of love. People who do this is looking for love in all the wrong places. Love comes from within. It has nothing to do with the exterior looks, body size or body shape. There is more to relationships than sex. You just might have to hunt for these relationships. Its best to just be yourself, and love will find you one day. Patience... patience ...patience..
2006-09-01 04:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl u r not dumb u r just one of the few girls who is not deperate. There are a lot of girls who feel the same way u do but are too desperate to admit it . if i were u i would stick to my moral s and find someone to love me for me with out the dirty show . keep ya head up you'll find real love.
2006-09-01 04:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by sexy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at my picture only the shadow know's but your right and some are into looks a certain shape size etc . i would not my self go out with a lady that had whiskers . or weighted more than me . there has to be a psychical attraction also .
2006-09-01 04:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋