I try to forget her but i can't.i don't know why.the reason i want to forget her because i just want to be her friend,a good friend.she still don't know my felling but she always asking me:"who do you love?"how i suppose to answer this question,if i tell her the thruth i scared she will........All my friend told me that she have somebody.To me is good but,i always thinking of her when i was lonely and now i dont have any idea,what i can do now is run away from her.i think that is a wise way to me.
2006-08-31 20:51:56 · 14 answers · asked by Mac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Running away is definitely not wise my friend. I would say that you should approach her and tell her how you feel. Be sure to tell her that if she does not have feelings for you then you are okay with just being friends. When she asks you "Who do you love?" That should have given you the hint that she is totally into you. So, I would say that you are half way there my friend. What are you waiting for? Go and express your love for her!
2006-08-31 20:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't restrain your heart from loving.. that could be the reason why you always think about her. Avoiding her will only make your situation worsen, it will definitely fall into the saying " the more you hate, the more you love". If you really like her, reserve your feelings for her, act as a normal friend and go on with the usual. It may seem hard at the beginning but you'll cope with it. And since she has her someone, that would help your mind settle with the idea that she's taken.. and you have to respect that. Who knows, someday... anything will fall into place the way you wanted it to be. But do not dwell with the idea that it will happen.. could just hurt yourself more. Just think positive.
2006-09-01 04:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you run, tell her you love her and want to be her friend. be there for her, stand behind her, be at her side. talk everyday. go to lunch or have tea. do not run away, you may leave the person on planet school, you were meant to share experiances with. we want no regrets. after you've told her, you will know if you must run. why do i feel this is the same gender. that doesn't matter, hold strong my friend. this person loves you too. this person will need you there, even if there is no sex, even better, it will last a lifetime. they may have lovers but do you know the pain that comes with that. worse than your pain, right now. try to understand that unrequited love can kill you, please tell your feeling before you run. do not fall victim of being used, after you tell them, because that has happened to me. that hurts more then ever letting her know, for me. i was used for 12 years and i let it happen because i loved her so much. she would say i love you too but then she would get what she wanted and well, she has a bad drug problem, she can't shake it, i've tried to help, but it's bigger than me. i still love her, it's unconditional. and so may yours be. tell, then run. or tell and stay a while. what is the harm of telling the dear soul you love them, it is beautiful, it will set you free too...
2006-09-01 04:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there ......boy have you got it bad for this lady ,look running away will not get away from youre feelings ,they will go with you ,you are scared of the truth would this be because youre scared that she will laugh at you or reject you ,why dont you tell her youre feelingsand explain to her that you love her as youre best friend and if at any time she needs you ,you will be there for her ,this lady that you love is a very lucky lady to have someone in her circle of friends that loves her and has a male friend that just wants to be there for her ,thats very rare ,and if she does have a b/friendit doesnt mean that you and her cant have a great friendship .......good luck and take care xx
2006-09-01 04:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sry, But That doesnt sound to wise...never run, itll do you in for sure..think of it this way...when you run..you will only be in another place with the same old feeling..just..well a different state of mind..thinking it will be better off is not the same as KNOWING that your better off..and you need to sit ya self down and ask yourself how your going to tell her..or get out more and look onward to the vast ocean of fishies
2006-09-01 03:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only want to be good friends. so whats the real question her. whats the truth?? do you love her?? or not??? and who do you love?? can really mean alot of things. Just like there are many types of love. first figure out what it is you are feeling, then be honest with your self, then with her. running away has never made anyone ok.
2006-09-01 04:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just expecting for more and you are happy when your with her. many axperiencing the same but its not good. time will wash away it will be a good memories to reminish.just accept the fact that it will stay that way. move on go on a date maybe you will find someone to replace her in your thought.
2006-09-01 03:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by graces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you run away you would make you lonely forever, it may be the easier thing to do but i tell it's not the wisest thing to do, the right things are really not easy to do but if your really feeling true love why would you run, you should fight you know what i mean?goodluck!!
2006-09-01 04:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a subtle way you can express your feeling that you are having very friendly feelings for her and some time they border on becoming more strong. observe her reaction. if she is having another b/f she will hint it to you
2006-09-01 03:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you learn proper English and grammar... Dude your English is really bad, i mean i cant even understand what your question is... If you cant speak English properly than please do us a favor and do not ask questions...
2006-09-01 03:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋