2006-08-31 20:33:08 · 14 answers · asked by anurag 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sure you asked the question because you wish to avoid that, right?
You will not fall into that category if you:
1. Make sure that you get married only when both you and your partner are ready for marriage.
2. Make a vow b4 marriage to each other that you will respect each other's views and values; consult each other on decisions affecting both of you; communicate with each other daily; do not bottle up negative feelings for each other; have consideration for each other; have regular satisfying sex; have one heart in handling your children.
3. Put into practice your vows during your married life.
2006-08-31 21:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are differnt combinations:
- some people marry and quarrel after
- some people quarrel and marry after
- some people quarrel before they marry
- some people marry before they quarrel
- some even quarrel while marrying
- and some marry while quarreling
whichever way you look at it, marriage and quarrel are like chicken and egg - it's difficult to say which comes first ...
2006-09-01 03:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage often changes the dynamics of the relationship, not usually for the better. Once you know that you are stuck with someone for the rest of your life, it becomes much more difficult to tolerate all the things that previously you just didn't worry about. I also feel that once you get married, you tend to not worry as much about what the other spouse thinks.
Hope that helps!
2006-09-01 03:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you quarrel with your sister or brother or parents....
It happens when u start living with someone u tend to have some small fights with them but ya they get worsened when u let ur ego barge in ..... just let go say sorry first wont harm u at all.
2006-09-01 03:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by khushi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has moments of having a argument, before or after a marriage. Its how you talk it out, respond and finds ways to resolve the situation.. as well as being honest, communicate and being respectful.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-01 03:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they do not know each other. some times there are some real problems but in majority of cases these are artificial things which peruse them to quarrel.
2006-09-01 07:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because love isn't perfect, it takes work which means learning to live and grow together. People don't come naturally preprogramed for ESP and mind reading, so sometimes people who are married do things that piss their spouse off.
It takes work and effort to have a good, strong relationship...marriage or not.
2006-09-01 03:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey we are but mere people , not perfect and in a relationship if u dont fight once in a while that means yr not talkign enough so dont worry, of course if the fights are terrible and physical then there is a problem
2006-09-01 03:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean people don't ever quarrel even before marriage??? c",)
2006-09-01 03:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To add salt in married life. No food is tasty without SALT
2006-09-01 06:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋