i want to know about girls behaviour.. because i can't understand still now... please help me...?

Answer 1

I want to help you, but it's tough to throw my own judgments in your face and expect you to accept them unconditionally.

I will begin with this:
Women are very, very confused

Women can be very sweet and kind, when they aren't confused

Women are overrated as sex objects, and underrated as people

Women are confident socially, men are not

Some women are EVIL. I know that sounds childish, but it's not untrue

I'm not a girl but I can give you a springboard to learn about them. If you are trying to figure out girls do as I've done and ask girls. I made the mistake of being attracted to any girl I asked, which caused me alot of problems. Most of the answers girls give you are incomplete, they are unaware of their own behaviour, or are hiding something.

Women are extremely concerned with how other people view them. They have a different system of values then us men have. Men tend to appreciate honesty, stoicism, and fun. Women tend to appreciate glamour, jealousy from others, and social standing. Women are extremely judgmental, and judge people in ways no guy is arrogant enough to judge.

What i do when I want to get into a girl's head is go back to when I was about 12-13, and that will give you an idea of the emotional maturity of alot of modern females. They aren't bad people, they just can't control their reasoning like men can. Women try very hard to be appreciated, and often confuse themselves in doing so. When they see a hot girl who needs no guys in a movie, they try to be her, just like us men fantasize about being some sort of wise old man, soldier, funny guy, player.

Anyone who tells you women are unconfident is a blatant liar. When was the last time you heard about a woman hating her life and eating lead? Never. When was the last time a guy did it? Go check out your local newspaper. Girls are mysterious because that mystery is what attracts guys. However, there's really not alot to women, they sit around, surf myspace, listen to music, and talk on the phone while us guys are playing video games, eating, whatever. They share alot of the same activities that we do.

I guess what i'm trying to say is that when you see a girl, what you see is what you get. Evil women have tried for years to elevate their gender to a mythical, unattainable level, but there really isn't anything mythical about them, except for their lack of intelligence, and their ability to make weak guys do their bidding. Most women are NOT evil at all, but it's those women who are that make girls so confusing for us guys, and girls themselves.

If you want to get a girl, see them for who they are - people like me and you with slightly different interests. Go about your own business, trying to accomplish what you want in life, and before you know it women will be attracted to you. The bad part is that the mystery will be gone at that point. Once you become yourself, women will completely adore you. Just don't get confused, misled, or pessimistic. Keep doing what you're best at. Women want a guy who is capable, and there are alot of guys who pose as that - but the real deal does better than them.

Of course, to us normal guys, the bottom-of-the-barrel style girls are not attainable. Alot of guys get frustrated because they can't even attain sluts, when sluts are actually harder to obtain for certain guys. They only sleep with thugs. But there's tons of hot girls that aren't in that category.

Oh, and if you're looking for a logical explanation of their behaviour... There is no logic, girls don't think with logic :)

Answer 2

Instead of just sitting there in the coffee shop making googly eyes at eachother all day why don't you just make the first move and see if she wants to hang out and do something. She may be shy when your friends are around or she just might happen to be having a great day when she seems shes all bubbly and stuff. Get it over with and ask her out and duh when someone tells you they're available over a break and you're available over a break usually it implys hey you want to hang out and do something together! She aint gonna say hey i'm available on thursday pick me up at 8:00 and we'll go see a movie. She doesn't want to seem like she's being a b**ch but is trying to be subtle.

Answer 3

Try asking her what her problem is.... if she tells you that she doesn't have a problem or she doesn't want to tell you then tell her the reason you want to know is because you care about her and you want to understand her behaviour. Hope it works out!

Answer 4

generally girls are more sensitive. there experiences with same persons are differ due to hers body growth. So they got more afraid. Girls behaviour change often due to her fear. To understand girls take much time.

Answer 5

As they say men are from Mars and Women from Venus. You will never understand the female mind, my advise just be there when you are needed.

Answer 6

C all of them are different but one thing common between all of them is that they are emotional by nature.....
So always find the purpose behind whatever she says....... n just know she cares a lot n wants to be cared for..

Answer 7

There are three ways to understand a Woman(Girl)
And.......
Nobody Knows them

Answer 8

Don't even try to understand women that will only confuse you more. Instead just try your best to fight there pooty tang powers of manipulation

Answer 9

what u want to know. erybody hav different behaviour. & very difficult to understand gurls.

Answer 10

I THINK UR WASTING TIME.. BETTER FIND THE HIDDEN POWERS IN U.. SO THAT U CAN EXPLORE UR SELF TO THAT WORLD..
AFTER THAT GIRLS WILL COME FORWARD TO U..
BE A POSITIVE MAN.. ALL THE BEST..
TAKE CARE..