2006-08-31 20:18:17 · 25 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your sorry he doesn't believe you.
2006-08-31 20:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by speakthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't apologize for something you haven't done. If you two can't talk it out and come to an understanding, then you can say something like "I'm sorry you're feeling hurt, what can I do to help you build up your trust in me?" But personally I would never say sorry for something I didn't do. For one, he's making false accusations, he doesn't trust you, and if you turn around and apologize for it, you are only reinforcing his mistrust. Don't do it.
2006-08-31 20:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if in your heart you know you have done nothing wrong, saying your sorry means nothing...... you can say it a million times and it is meaningless..... in certain situations saying sorry for something you have not done is the right thing to do.... just because of love or a misunderstanding or hurt feelings etc..... but in your case I am sensing a control issue on the b/f part..... but, it all boils down to what YOU want to do.... God bless
2006-08-31 20:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground or you're in for a lifetime of looking for permission to exist. On the other hand if he's violent or obsessively jealous, use your head and don't provoke him, but for God's sake start planning your exit before it's too late.
2006-08-31 21:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to do anythig, he is obviously insecure. Saying sorry for something you havent done makes you guilty in his eyes making him right. If he loves you he will respect you standing by your original decision and explanation. Good luck
2006-08-31 20:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Della S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont!
If he is trying to make you apologise for things you havent done, he is trying to control you and this is not a good thing.
Talk to him .. work out what his problem is and convince him you are telling the truth .. if he doesnt believe you then dump him and find someone who deserves you!
2006-08-31 21:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't apologise for something you haven't done! That makes him feel as though he was right all along. You could say, "I'm sorry that you feel like this, but I can't apologise for something I haven't done". Don't let him bully you, in short!
2006-08-31 20:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by sallybowles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try talk to him & make him understand. but if he really want u to say sorry u got to tell him u will never say sorry for anything that not done by u.
2006-08-31 20:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by kiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't appologise for something you didn't do.
If he doesn't believe you didn't do what it was he claims and refuses to believe you didn't it then you need to sort out the trust issues you obviously have.
2006-08-31 20:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by earthangel_ghost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to him for his insecurity and for him not trusting you as well as for him judging you, but don't apologize for what you didn't do. If you do, then he's going to think that you did do whatever he suspected you of.
2006-08-31 20:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what can you do? if you say sorry then it makes you look guilty stand your ground and don't give in. talk to him and explain how this makes you feel, he wouldn't like it if you accused him of something that he didn't do
2006-08-31 20:25:58 · answer #11 · answered by Scottish lass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋