Whenever I bring up a subject to my boyfriend, which is about our relationship and what does he think and where does he see our relationship going, he seems to get all uptight and for example, now he has pulled away and told me he needs some time on his own?
2006-08-31 19:52:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reconsider this relationship, girl.... If men truly loves you, they will listen on what you want to say..... no matter on what issue, my dear.
2006-08-31 19:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by CH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how old you are and rather or not your guy can take your relationship anywhere. Does he have a job and were you clear about where you wanted to go. Your question could be confusing. One thing is for sure pulling away is not a good sign. Especially if it last longer than a day. If it does don't feel bad just know you two are in different places in your thoughts and you may need to slow down or move on. also for the record you don't have to ask a guy about your relationship He will always let you know. If He wants more He'll let you know.
2006-09-01 03:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! That doesn't sound good. From my experience, when a guy wants time on his own....that's a sign that he has somebody else. He probably has somebody else on the side, who is not interested in a relationship.....that he can just be with...and have no strings attached. Someone who doesn't care to talk about issues, or a relationship. A lot of guys love dumb girls like that. If he wants time...give it to him. Show him the door.
2006-09-01 02:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by MiLuv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Violet, I just answered your other post on this same subject. It sounds like he's not a keeper. You deserve a guy who wants to talk about things, and cares about your feelings!
2006-09-02 10:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by irishman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are sick to the back teeth of talking about relationships. They would rather just have them. This endless analysis and constant rehashing of every moment and gesture is pure torture for them. You shouldn't be surprised your man needs space. You drove him to it.
2006-09-01 02:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesnt like the commitment end of the relationship. if he says he needs space he feels your getting to close and he doesnt want to limit himself to one partner.
2006-09-01 03:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like to let things happen and do not like to be pressurized
2006-09-01 02:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by clutch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you always ask him about your relationship? give him some time..maybe he wil give u some answers and stuff to what you have been asking him about..
2006-09-01 03:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has problem
2006-09-01 03:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋