im 16 and ive been dating this guy for a couple weeks hes kinda like a temporary summer thing nothing big just something to keep you busy and i knew him but i didnt really like know him personally and he didnt look like a perv but i guess real pervs are good at getting you to a point to were they get to be pervs so im not a virgin anymore and he wanted to try this kinky handcuff **** so i was i told him whatever just dont rape me and i let him cuff me and he did the weirdest thing, i couldnt do a damn thing about it he ******* spanked me really damn hard worse than my parents have ever done to me and he wouldnt stop even when i told him to and when i was crying it was the weirdest sickest most painful thing ever and i wanna get revenge on this guy but im to embarrased to even tell anyone that he spanked me i wouldve preferred rape
2006-08-31 19:24:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't sound like this guy had much of a clue about spanking. First off he should have checked out whether you're into it, or at least curious enough to give it a try. Then he certainly shouldn't have handcuffed you the first time - that comes much later, if at all. And he should have started out quite gently and gradually spanked harder, to see how you were reacting - and given you a safeword to use if it was getting more than you could take. That way you might well have found it fun, and wanted to try it again.
Incompetent, insensitive idiots like him give us kinky folk a bad name....
2006-09-01 10:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was spanking you and he refused to stop when you told him to stop, then that constitiutes assault and battery, a felony. While the compromised position may be embarassing, you should report this to the police, the sooner the better. The police are probably going to treat your situation professionally as the situation that you were in is not unique.
If you are wanting to press charges do so before any bruises from the impact disappear. The police will want to take photos as evidence, but it would be done by either a female officer or a doctor. Remember, you are a victim here, and you have every right to seek prosecution.
2006-09-01 06:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No woman should ever prefer the "R" word... By the way you write your not 16 your probably like 30 or 40 or maybe a guys, what you need is help...You need to find a counsling and help that sickness that you have it will develope into something else..
2006-09-01 02:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the police, they might have heard this too many times to laugh about it
2006-09-01 02:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋