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If someone initiates kissing n touching at the very end of a successful first date, is it better to practise some self-restraint? Will too much lust kill any possiblity of the relationship going onto a deeper level?

2006-08-31 19:10:49 · 10 answers · asked by jixiang 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If you want something meaningful, & lasting, then self restrain, if not, GO FOR IT!!

2006-08-31 19:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyz 2 · 2 0

After a first date he shouldn't get more than a nice soft kiss, if that. You won't be killing any lust, you will just be showing him that you are not easy. Sure guys like to get with the easy girls, but when it comes to a relationship they go for the girls they know hasn't already done it all with every one else. Besides when he just gets a little kiss, he will really be thinking about next time the two of you are together.

2006-09-01 02:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Vicm0322 3 · 0 0

yes def. if you are a girl the stereotype of "****" or doing to much right away may be a way of describing the experience so if you are a girl yes hold your self back... it will only make it better later and it wont give the guy what he wants right away or make him get the impression that you are a "easy". if you are a guy hold back its in your best interest ....you don't want to scare her away... best thing to do for a guy and girl actually do the kiss on the cheek more for guys on the cheek or hand or peck on lips or for-head... I don't advise any french kisses here at this time.

2006-09-01 02:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by answerthis 1 · 0 0

Well, gosh, if kissing her is fireworks for both of you what are you supposed to do? The best thing to do after giving and getting a kiss or kisses that could launch a thousand ships, you ought to tell her how much you enjoyed the time together and that she is a great kisser. Then kiss her again.

2006-09-01 03:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0 0

It all depends on who you are w/. If the person is randy and forward, you may want to kick it up a notch. But, if he/she seems reserved, you may want to end the 1st date w/ a casual kiss...........on the groin(just kidding). You've got to play it by ear, and do what feels rite. If this chick/dude has been out w/ other people you know, you may try asking them how much he/she likes to play around on the 1st date. Good luck, and take a couple condoms, just in case.

2006-09-01 02:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by solipsistic 1 · 0 0

It's good to keep it hot. But don't rush. It's good to move slow if you are looking for an indefinitely long relationship. Men and women are on very different time tables and emotional planes. Sex before you establish a strong trust and intimacy, will always lead to drama and a short life span for a relationship.

2006-09-01 02:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 1 · 0 0

It won't kill all possibility but practicing self restraint shows good character.

2006-09-01 02:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Best to have some control. Or the other person thinks you bed every person you kiss.

2006-09-01 02:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 2 0

Self-restrain please because that's all you will have sex, to me that's not a relationship!

2006-09-01 02:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by DEE 3 · 0 0

no

2006-09-01 04:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by ................................ 2 · 0 1

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