2006-08-31 19:04:22 · 21 answers · asked by jasleen k 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
During such time, you have to punish him by using sticks.
You have to beat him on his buttock, which is the good place for beating and nothing dangerous thing happens.
You should teach your son that there is a punishment for bad behaviour and rewards for good behaviour. You have to appreciate and reward him for his good behaviour too.
Especially male children are very mischievous. They should not be allowed to make more mischief. It is also your excess of love make him more mischievous. Never agree to all his demands. Meet some demands and refuse some demands. You have to learn children psychology by all means. You are his first teacher, behave not only like a mother, but like a teacher too.
2006-09-02 17:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is looking for positive attention. If you have other children, try spending 30 minutes alone with him each day and doing an activities they he likes. Maybe coloring, or playing a game. Something that they two of you can do together without anyone else involved. After you do this, ask him if he had fun. If he did tell him that he only gets this time when he behaves, and when he is not using abusive language.
Good Luck
2006-08-31 19:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spare the rod and spoil the child, it is said.
Too much beating also demoralises the child.
Please use your wise toungue with enough patience
before you beat the child without causing injury.
Like carrot and stick, you require enough patience
in bringing up a child for presentation to the world
in later years as a great asset to your home and
society. And he will.
Every river is turbulent and violent at the biginning. But, it flows down calmly and beautifully as it reaches the sea. This is true of life. Everything will get ok with the passage of time, provided you take sufficient care .. all with enough patience.
2006-08-31 20:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Vijay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you will have to control yourself. Do not resist him. tell him some stories involving a hero with adventures and speaking only good words in a mild manner. Project a villain always using a foul language and finally getting defeated by the hero. Indirect method will help. We should also serve as the role models.
2006-08-31 19:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it is hard to stick to your guns with punishment you have too. He needs to know you are serious..kids can sense how far they can push it. If you say a two minute time out, or time out untill he apologizes make sure you stick with it. After only around three times of this sort of "sticking to your guns policy." He will know your serious, and that there is consequences. If you have to put him in timeout 10 times in a row then do it. It will be alot of work the first couple times but 100 times easier after that. I have worked with kids for the last 5 years (all ages.) trust me it works.
2006-08-31 19:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The children are like wet clay.What ever u speak in your home and behave reflects in the child"s manner. Yuo have to be strict and kind in dealing with your babe. He will understand what to do and what not. Do not hit him.Explaing the things will help the child.
2006-09-01 04:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Bharathi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him face to face at his eye level and find out who he learned this from. Bet you it is one of his friends that he plays with or observes in school.
Seek professional help for him as soon as possible you will need to curb this immediately no let the doctors prescibe drugs to calm him down. Check his diet and see if some foods set him off and keep him away from those foods.
2006-08-31 19:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by realdream1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says, "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it."
Tell him that that type of behavior will not be tolerated in your home and try to reason with him. If it happens again apply the rod of correction to the seat of righteousness.
2006-08-31 19:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by lockyer03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're struggling with this. I hope this is just a phase but it could be a manifestation of other problems that he is experiencing. It wouldn't hurt to have him tested by a psychologist to make sure that his mental health is okay.
2006-09-01 07:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the poster who said take him to a child psychologist.
You need to have him evaluated to make sure nothing else is going on with him....especially if bipolar disorder runs in the family.
2006-08-31 19:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Moma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋