say i am 44 she is 25
2006-08-31 18:59:10 · 26 answers · asked by jim 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Nope as long as you are in it for love not sex and stupidity. If you love eachother great.
But be warned: age differences MAY have a negative impact later in life... seriousley think about it... when you are 54 she will be 35. When you have kids you will be MUCH older... maybe you won't have kids.... will she??
She may want to do younger activities you won't.
Think about the BIG picture.
Also she was 11 when you were 30!!! Anyway, that doesn't matter, you are both adults now. Sorry, little joke.
Anyway, if you guys love eachother.... but are you doing it because she is young and sexy? If so, DON'T DO IT!
Are you doing it because you would die for her, and take a bat to the face for her, and take care of her even if tomorrow she is mangled in a car wreck and is disfigured and crippled? If so, DO IT... if you answered no to any of these, find another lady.
Do you believe the same... both Christians? This can have a HUGE negative impact if you don't.
2006-08-31 19:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by musingaloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, gotta make an ugly woman your wife............hahah
Seriously, are you rich? that's a reason she wants you
Are you a great catch? then why haven't you been caught
When you are 66, she will be 47......think about that......if you have children, you may not live to enjoy them.
How can a 44yo man even THINK he can make a woman 19 years younger happy? By the time she is 30 she will realize what a mess she is in.
You want to relax, she is just starting life. How can you keep up with her EVEN if you are in excellent shape?
Your interest wouldn't even be the same, she likes the dance, you like the opera. She likes the club, you like the dinner. She loves tennis, you watch football. She likes her friends, you like entertaining at home. She likes movies, you want to read. She wants a baby, maybe you already have two...etc...............
Whatever it is... you have been there, done that and she is just starting.
2006-09-01 04:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by deed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the reason why you are intending to marry her. Is it because she is young?...pretty soon she will be thirty- what then?
Is she a mature 25- which is why you are attracted to her? Then I think you guys will do just fine.
Take my in-laws as an example (bless his soul- passed away at 91)...he married her when she was 25 and he was- are you sitting down?>>>> at 55 !!!! One thing she said she never experienced was him cheating on her. She gave birth to two sons- both his....one of them is my husband. Age really shouldn't matter- there are other factors that should affect your decision more. For example: does she know you are thinking about marrying her? What does she think? That should count more than what any of us is saying here.
2006-09-01 02:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at tom cruise and katie holmes. If you are in love age shouldnt matter. Just remember that when you are 90 she will be 71, if you pass away sometime around their could your wife handle being a widow for the remainder of her years? And in light of eternity age is irrelevant, if God wants you together then great.
How about this, I am 35 and in love with a 19 year old, so dont feel so guilty!
2006-09-01 02:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by enoch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong in doing this. If your ideas and personalities match, its OK. But the problems will crop up once you are on the declining side sexually. You can't satisfy her and things may go wrong at this juncture. Unless you two are totally faithful to each other in every sphere, its difficult. Needs lots of effort on both parties to stay put. Think of all the pros and cons before committing. Good luck.
2006-09-01 02:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. If it's honestly love and you two are happy and willing to make a big step like marriage then good for you. But I'd recommend counseling before the actually marrying just to make sure you two are both on the same level when it comes to a holy union.
2006-09-01 02:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by deansgurl81702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's 25 you're fine. But that's the minimum age I'd give you. Girls don't turn into people again until they hit 25. Then you can take them seriously.
2006-09-01 02:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, As long as she loves you, and isn't after your money.I hope you are going to marry her because you love her,not just a young show toy.The age doesn't matter as long as you both love each other and you both have trust.A marriage cannot lasted,if you have no trust.I see no reason why you 2 cannot get marry.Have a happy life together,love and trust each other.Make it would.
Clowmy
2006-09-01 02:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I presume you mean "marry" -- but that should not be undertaken unless it makes her "merry" as well! A large age difference can indicate a lot of adjustment that each party must do, but there is nothing in itself wrong about it.
2006-09-01 02:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are meant to be together then yes, but if you are fishing for younger chicks because you are wanting younger love, you will only wind up hurting yourself and the poor girl involved with you.
2006-09-01 03:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by sly2kusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋