can anyone share a success story where u wondered and waited for your ideal companion??????? if so, did u know that they would appear? how long did it take? was the waiting painful and worrisome??????? patience is being tested and doubt is creeping in for me.........
2006-08-31 18:45:00 · 8 answers · asked by blkhawk51 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sitting idle won't bring the dear one to u. U have to go out, meet people, make friends n be happy. Surely there will one who will go head over heels for u.... Best of luck.
2006-08-31 18:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lovlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no ideal female companion, just like there is no ideal male companion. We all have our odd little quirks that we have to work on. Get out and meet someone. My aunt Diane has been waiting for the 'ideal' man most all of her life. She finally met him, and married him, when she was 55. That's a pretty long wait. They do seem perfect together though. While you are waiting, get out and enjoy life.
2006-08-31 18:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by ANGELa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, MIKE S. I was going through some tough times and went out on New Year's to hear some live music. The seat next to mine happened to become vacant and a lady sat next to me who had been divorced for almost 15 years. Neither of us had gone there to meet anyone - in fact, I had just ended a relationship that had turned so nasty I really was considering being a monk or something. But wouldn't you know it! One thing led to another and we eventually got married. So it can happen. But don't listen to those that say there's only one way it will happen. Love always finds a way, only it's usually not how you'd expect or ever imagine. Hang in there bud. But look especially for the sincere, lonely and those with inner beauty. There are lots of nice ladies waiting too - some of them on this site as well. So who knows? You just might find the gem of your life - go for it.
2006-08-31 19:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about love coming around I have been waiting for years for the right lady and she still hasn't came around but I know why one I don't drink don't smoke I'm not from a gang and I'm black so I know why I haven't found that lady yet because sadly women like ignorant dudes in my community. Oh yeah I don't have cornrolls I wear a bald head and today's women don't like that plus I don't walk with my pants hanging from my ***.
And I don't walk up on fools saying what up cuzz or what up blood what set your from and I'm not out doing drive by's so I know why I'm still single because todays women in my community are some crazy hamlets wookers thats slang for stupid women who like to have their asssssssss kick by their man lol.
2006-08-31 18:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by southernbound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still waiting myself. Sorry! But if it makes you feel any better, my patience has almost ran out too.
2006-08-31 21:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by BONNI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still waiting for that special someone to come along and sweep me off my feet.
2006-08-31 18:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you will never know if you just wait for the one you think is right try many thatway the right one won't pass you by while you are with the wrong one
2006-08-31 18:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes when you least expect it!
2006-08-31 18:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋