should i just broke up or should i just cotinue the relationship and try to spice things up??
2006-08-31 18:36:34 · 21 answers · asked by amira dr Labuan,Malaysia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you just said I can tell that you are not into very serious relationship with your bf..If you are already bored of him then how r u supposed to go on? If you love him and u just need something exciting to happen between you its normal.. But if u r thinking to leave him because u r bored then im not so sure if u do love the guy..I believe that in every relationship ppl must work hard to keep it healthy and also to make themselves happy.. If you like him then no dont leave him and try to make things better.. Don't expect that you will find a bed of roses in any of ur relationships ..U must be understanding and respect each other.. Try to do something special and go somewhere u never been before..Talk with him about things that u never even thought.. Watch a movie , go swimming, go for bowling, to do something fun! spend time with him and think of nice things to do together.. tell him that u want something to cheer u up and tell him how u feel about ur relationship..
If you are bored think that its not only HIS fault..Think of what u possibly do wrong too..
I hope the best!! =P
g00d luck girl =D
2006-08-31 18:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look within yourself. Is it because you are not adventures? Do you depend on him to spice up your life? If you wanted to do something exciting and find that he is bumming you down, providing you with logical reasons not to do whatever exciting you wish. Drop him like a bad habit. He is a miserable person and misery loves company. But if you're both boring, then try to slowly work it out together and try new things.
2006-08-31 18:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Inquisit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spice things up first, the, if it doesnt work u may break up. But if it happens that both of u share the same boredom, then just break up.
2006-08-31 18:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Libra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by josepa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, you are very very very smart, if you see a problem you know will probably not change at all. It is VERY wise to leave as early as possible so you dont get too deep into something. You definitely saved yourself a lot of trouble, in an emotional and relationship sense.
2006-08-31 18:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are a two way street, if you were expecting him to do all the work, grow up. If it doesn't work out and both of you try, then yes break up but bored? Go away I hate people like that
2006-08-31 18:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Karce 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your bored be honest and end it I tried twice to stay with a couple of my ex girlfriends and it was a nightmare best thing to do end it and bounce. And get somebody you have more in common with I learned my lesson never will I date someone I don't have a lot in common with. She can be another race but we have to have a lot in common.
2006-08-31 18:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by southernbound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's okay, that's why they're boyfriends first before they're husbands. If you aren't excited by him anymore, do him a favor and cut him loose so he can find someone who is. Just be sure because if you change your mind you probably won't get him back.
2006-08-31 18:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by Blue_eyed_Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Until there is love you can never leave.
But if your to that point where your bored and no excitement in your relationship..it's good to talk to him about it..IF you love him still. And if not you must tell him all about it.
I always say...." If it's fixable fix it"!!
Good_Luck!
2006-08-31 18:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by nAiSa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up. Move on. Find someone new and exciting. It'll be better in the end for both of you guys.
2006-08-31 18:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by bunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋