what is the best way to make friends with girls?

Question

I want to learn to build relationships with attractive girls for friendship. What can you recommend? What attracts girls and what words should I say to a girl to start the relationship? Is it ok to complement a girl/woman on her looks, outfit, etc...Will those comments be accepted or rejected?

Answer 1

don't appreciate things about her too much, or she will think that you like her or something.
just talk to her with a caring tone; ask her things, how she is and her family and her looks, her difficulty and stuff.
be confident and don't act fake. a good sense of humour always comes in handy. girls love jokes. make her laugh
you can share your secrets with her if you want, be honest and most of all... always be there for her when she needs you. be on her side when she is correct.
don't freak her out by talking rude things when you meet. get to know her.
talk to her like you would with your boy-friends and discuss things with her. if she is working, then ask her things about her work. girls like to talk a lot. they are good listeners too.

Answer 2

I have no long term friendships with women. Longest friendship I had with a woman was like a year. We didn't see each other that much.

Most of the women I've been friends with were ones I was trying to hook up with somewhere down the line and I messed it up.

I'm young, and I find that young women (and men) tend to be impatient. Especially if they are single.

I just be myself, don't act scared, and give compliments occasionally. There are plenty of attractive girls I began friendships with. However, they didn't build into anything big. Usually because:
A) I don't really want a girlfriend.
B)They really want a boyfriend and realize I don't really want a girlfriend.
C)They are simply just using me until they get the man they want

Either that or it's because I'm willing to take them to a movie or dinner or something. Which really is my own choice, cause I know when I'm not going to get anything back. That's just the life of a man.

However, when I lived out west and had a whole bunch of friends and partyed a lot it was VERY easy to make friends with girls. They all wanted to be my friend because I knew so many people and always knew where the party/weed was at.

What attracts girls the most? Confidence.

Don't be a sucker though. There's a thin line between being nice and being a nice guy. If you choose to be that nice guy don't be mad with the results either. Take me, I'm overall a nice guy and I don't get mad that: most women reject that. It's their loss. I see the men they get with and... Those dudes are NOT me. It ain't bound to last.

One more suggestion, make friends with older women. Since I've been about 20 I've been making friends with women in their 30's and above. Beautiful women. Sometimes they have a boyfriend, sometimes not. Yet there's no pressure. I use the age gap as an excuse. Unfortunately young women diminish in comparison. A 30 year old woman is in her sexual prime. They know a little something about life and love. 20 year old women just know about dick and drinking/smoking.

Answer 3

Usually a girl will never turn down a comment like "You look nice" because they can't get enough of it!

Make a comment on the situation or what you are doing to get things started out, then you can chit chat. While you are small talking, infer that she looks nice, it seems to be more effective than just directly saying it because if you just go up and say "You are sexy" or something like that, they will think you are just after them to get physical with them.

Some things that attract girls is if you take good care of yourself, show respect to everybody, and when you smile and look them in the eye when they are talking to you. If they smile too, then you are on the right page.

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Good Luck!

Hope this helps!

Answer 4

I think it all depends on the environment. If I were at work I would not comment on looks or anything like that, but I would simply introduce myself. If i were out in a club I might compliment them on their looks but then it might come off as another line. So, I just try to be myself and I try to make them laugh. Seems to break the ice.

Answer 5

ok well try going underground and taking a huge leap and asking what she likes to do and if she likes anything that you do just discuss the topic a little bit then ask her something else like say "i've noticed you around here before and was thinking maybe we could befriends" dont push the subjuct to much and outfit complimenting will get you a little bit but not much they more or less like if you talk and they dont need to bc if they have to do all the talking they think well this kid is just so quiet i dont think i could handle him

Answer 6

Is this a trick question. There is no special game you need to play or key words you need to use to meet girls. If your interested in meeting someone just walk up to them and strike up a conversation. If you find this too difficult then you need to work on your self confidence. Girls can't resist a guy with self confidence. Confidence not arrogance!!!

Answer 7

well, appreciating any girls' luks and beauty will make u stand as a flirt! u should crack good and sensible jokes with them, try having a fair and nice conversation with them.
appreciate the work they do or correct them when wrong. dont always hang over them from friendship.
firstly,u go behind the girl and when she notices that, stop giving her attention and then see the magic!!

good luck!!

Answer 8

try to begin conversation with simple words such as care for a chat?Sure she wont reject if you are frienly enough.Then just a normal chat and avoid relationship topic then u can move on better conversation with her

Answer 9

Are you man?? Why would you want to make friends with girls?? You should be asking how to bang attractive girls for sex asap...

Answer 10

depends what girls like dumb cheer leaders than that will be chalinging it would depend on your popularity scale or what ever people call it know but #1 rule dont say somthing to make them get affended