Some of my friends have said that i shold just let it go because theirs no way i could have her. But i cant do that she is the nicest girl ive ever met and shes been there for me through a bunch of crap i had to go through this year and i just i ono i really really really wish that she could help me with this but im really scared to say anything to her. shes graduating this year and off to college and i dont know what to do...help.
2006-08-31 18:09:09 · 13 answers · asked by Andrew H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how old are you? older girls do go for younger guys alot!.... you'd be surprised!
2006-08-31 18:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by magdalina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter. So what if she's 2 years older than you. Your not the only one with that case. My friend Jason is 6 years younger than her girlfriend. My brother is 8 years younger than her wife and my cousin Lito is 10 years younger than her wife. And there’s so many love affairs have the same situation as you had. Your problem is not a big deal. Don’t let anybody influence your decisions. If you really like that girl, then go for it, court her, tell her about what you felt for her. Whatever decisions has she made, you must accept it, but before any thing else, do the first move. Remember, she's the only one who hold the key. If she allow you to enter her life or not.
2006-08-31 18:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by rainbow_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there with you, buddy. If I was in your shoes, first, I would steel up and understand that you have do not have control on what this girl willl ultimately think about you. Do not worry about this! You are a great guy. Go ahead, tell her how you think, that she is the nicest girl you have ever met. Let her know that you care about her. Then it's her choice. There is no way to know how she will react. Let her react. However it turns out, I can tell you, you are someone special.. One day you will find just the right girl for you. Good Luck, I am proud of you!
2006-08-31 18:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by flightsimulator58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two pieces of advice that help me to live my life without fearing things like this. One is 'you're going into this with nothing, what does it matter if you leave with nothing.' As things stand right now, you don't have the girl, so what does it matter if she doesn't feel the same? You're in a position where you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. The second piece of advice is, 'What I think of you is none of your business, and what you think of me is none of mine.' Who cares what anyone thinks about you (this girld included)? At the end of the day, you are the only one who stands in front of the mirror and must stand up to your own values, beliefs, and expectations. Do what feels right to you, not what sounds right to onlookers.
2006-08-31 18:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Play along with the situation, feel her out,not literally,lol. You kno get to know her. Dont go in for a dive just yet, you dont wanna short circuit anything. Talk to her, let her get to kno you. and you also get to kno who she is and the different things she believes in and love doing, by then the rope should get shorter and shorter till ur right in, Then after you and her will both kno its ok to make a move on her.
She will like it. dont come off too desparate or madly in love with her tho, i kno it can be hard at times to control ur emotions, but hey, its worth the wait.
2006-08-31 18:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by ChanteC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen i was in the same situation lol
i was scared but the more i hanged out wit him the more we liked each other and he asked me out instead u should try and hang out wit her more its better then not tryin at all or if u thinks she like u ask her ur self and im 13 hes 15 lol
2006-08-31 18:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by saphira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to them just talk with her to see if possibly she would be interested in a younger guy. But really age has nothing to do with it as long as the consenting adults are mature. So don't put all your feelings out there but i would say test the water. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-31 18:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by ms1choc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhmm.. If she already has been a "friend to you", It probably not work cause that's all she see's you as, I don't know the story, basically just say I would like to see you, and leave her to phone you back
2006-08-31 18:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a whirl
really what do you have to loose?
so what if she says no
but what if she would say yes and you passed up the chance thats whats life is all about
you win you loose but most of all you gotta try
no regrets
2006-08-31 18:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by demilitia66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ter's no age 4 love.dun giv up..jz face it..n hope 4 d best.ter's no point wen it's 2 late.gd luck.
2006-08-31 18:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋