I only like them older, alot older, im 18 and i have zero interest in 18,19,20 year olds,lol. Now 35,36,37, now we're talkin, lol. Why could that be?
2006-08-31 17:58:55 · 19 answers · asked by filipina_babe_8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you're too mature for most guys your age...
generally men in their 30's are more mature...
2006-08-31 18:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by newyorkrose9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Maybe you find comfort in older men, as they provide a more stable relationship for you. If you have been raised without a strong father presence, you may be craving this element, and thus, older men would be an attractive option. Most likely it is a maturity thing. Unfortunatley, many (not all but many) young guys are not ready for a serious relationship, and do not value emotion as highly as they should. These older males may be more on your level in the relationship stakes.
2006-09-01 01:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very typical of 18 year olds. To be superficial: 18/19/20 year olds don't have as much experience in bed as older men. Older men also have more money. Have more security. They have a life.
Guess what though, they might seem more mature, but if they are chasing 18 year old girls they aren't very mature.
Nobody says you HAVE to have a boyfriend.
Young guys are nervous. Inexperienced. Etc. You have to ask yourself, what do you want out of a relationship?
2006-09-01 01:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by nathancarson23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your last question about the older guy almost everyone assumed it was the older guy interested in you and it really was you interested in him. But the idiots automatically assumed he pursued you and called him a perv!! now you saw you like older guys and no one calls you a sick person!!! why is that.. because most every one answering question here are hypocrites and you want to take advice from them!!
Do what you feel comfortable with. If you can look yourself in the mirror and feel good about your self and the people you date then date who ever you want and screw everyone else
2006-09-01 01:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words-money and stability. That may be what's most important to you in a relationship. Not that I necessarily see anything wrong with that, by the way. I don't see that as anymore wrong than a man being attracted to young shapely women. It maybe part cultural/social, but I think it's mostly a biological need because they both drive procreation.
2006-09-01 02:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of reason on this one.
1.Your looking for a father figure( cause possible you either look up to your father or never or little to do with your father).
2.Your looking for someone to control you, dominate you in your relationship.
3.Cause you like to feel like the baby.
4.Cause it's part of the "IN" thing now..date younger ladies,vise versa ..date older men.
5.Security...if you are dating career minded men with a good paying job.
6.Or it could be just your fetish...!!!!
2006-09-01 01:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by nAiSa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own preference. I know I like men that are a little older than I am. My husband is 6 1/2 years older. Don't fret, it's only natural for a woman to like guys that are a little older as it is for men to like girls that are a little youger.
2006-09-01 01:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Rosalind55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually younger people who are attracted to older people do so because they are looking for someone grounded, stable, mature than they can get from someone who is younger.
2006-09-01 01:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men take longer to mature. Maybe you like the older ones because they are more mature?
2006-09-01 01:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal preference.
2006-09-01 01:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋