true.. im deprressed and i know alot of plp say that itl get better but even if the individual doesnt do anything like make frinds or just waits for it then is it really true that sumting will happen? im also 20 yrs old and ive really havent the luxuary of being in lov and being happy. i would like to fall in love.. it must feel so good and i bet its really an antidepressant if not one hell of a treatment.... and like all other deprressed ***** ive tried taking my own life.. y cant i do it i dont know.. am i meant to be like this or wat? counseling doesnt help.... lov on the other hand might but thats seems like light yrs and the only thing i can d is just think of me kissing a nice pair of legs.... and u want to know the worst thing? is that i have a ******* syndrome...
2006-08-31 17:54:37 · 6 answers · asked by al 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
message me if u wanna talk i could use some chatter time..
2006-08-31 19:19:51 · update #1
Hun love can be your highest high, but it can also be your lowest low. Self love is so cliche these days, but on the other hand, you have to realize that you are not half a person walking around. You are whole, with or without a signifigant other. You have to learn to love your own company, and others will follow. After all, no one wants to miss out on a good time. It's not so much the situation, its how you overcome and learn from it. The hardest thing you can learn, but above all the most important about any obstacle in life is the saying "This too, shall pass." I know that you don't want to hear that, but it is so true. Ask anyone here.
2006-08-31 20:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by kandysue_86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is worth taking the time to find out. Since you are asking our advice, hold on to each day. There are no quick fix answers. There is a world of us out here who have been in the same shoes and for what ever reason were able to hold on to the thinnest thread of hope in each instance of despair. There are times when strangers pass through your life unexpectedly and with just enough of a message for you to think more and grow And sometimes you have to be your own very best coach and friend. Remember the times you felt you couldn't stand for one more wrong thing to happen but as time passed you made it through. What ever IT was wasn't so important or scary anymore and you overcame it. Reinforce that you are stronger than that now and you will continue to be so full as you get wonderfully older. If you waste the time of your life filling up with junk stuff(nonvalue activities) it will not feel meaningful to you. So decide what things bring true meaning & happiness to you and reject the rest. I'm not understanding all the between the lines meanings of your question but in case you are serious about wanting input from others; here it is. Keep it simple and good. Get clear and be good to yourself for starters. Good things will come but you have to be ready. There is so much to look forward. Don't let anxiety distract you from moving forward.
2006-08-31 18:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by ena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, I just turned 17 and am suffering severe Depression. I've dated 2 guys, for 2 months each, Love hurts honey! It isn't all its cracked up to be! If you need a friend or just a listening ear, possibly some advice, email me nemofiddler@yahoo.com I'd love to chat more. And I am a recovering cutter but am still suicidal and am on meds and like you, I've found that councelling doesn't help! Life often seems helpless, but I'm told there's a rainbow at the end.
2006-08-31 19:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right about needing love to give your life zest and to find happiness. But don't think of love as just something that comes from some other person. Discover what your talents and potentials are and develop them. Get interested in doing and creating something. What are you interested in? Love anything you can - a pet, a tree, mother nature, a beautiful woman. Look at really positive videos like SERENDIPITY. Soak them up, look at them over and over again. Do you like to sing? What songs? Play an instrument? What would you really like to do? I love to watch the Sun rise! Don't dwell on all the negative **** that you are surrounded by in your life. Take your attention off of it and focus on something positive and wholesome. And if you find someone you are interested in, don't fall in love but rise in love!
Do something together. Be a team. Care for each other. After my relationship blew up, I was depressed for three years. I just got out of the hospital and went to work and put my energy into posi tive activities and it worked. Don't look for love but create it.
If it wasn't for love, there wouldn't be one living thing. Love is all around you if you tune into it. I found it. You can, too.
2006-08-31 18:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by Corky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be willing to help yourself get better...
My best friend is 28 years old (will be 29 on the 7th) and she has never been in love. She dated only one guy for about a week... She keeps herself busy with friends, work, family.... You can and will survive this you just need to work on you. And think of it like this - you need to not be depressed because what woman would want to be with a guy that is depressed?
Work on getting yourself better then worry about finding love. God will find that for you and has your plan already laid out - just pray and be in His word and it will all fall into place.
2006-08-31 18:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by shannon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend some time in a nice, quiet asylum.
2006-08-31 17:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋