and people say he loves u?
2006-08-31 17:33:58 · 35 answers · asked by BritBrat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"its not going to work out, Good bye."
2006-08-31 17:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by justthinkin 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If people are telling you that he loves you, and you've only been dating for two weeks, you need to let him know that he's moving a little too fast for you. Someone who can easily fall in love in that short amount of time, can move on JUST as quick, and maybe that's NOT someone that you want to be with. Let him know that he's a good person, he's just a little too intense. Hopefull he'll understand, and if he doesn't then at least he you made him aware. You can never be wrong for telling the truth.
2006-08-31 17:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by p!ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same way you do with anyone else. You tell him as nicely as you can that you just don't want to be with him anymore. Make sure to get the whole point accross as you don't want him thinking that things may change as time goes on, but really try to be nice to him about it. Yes, it'll hurt his feelings. There's no way around that whether he was just 'somewhat into you' or he 'loves you' (as you've heard from third parties). That's all you can do really. Be honest and nice.
2006-08-31 17:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to break up with someone is to be totally honest. It may be painful for both of you, but to stay in an unwanted relationship is cheating you and that person. It is also good to use tact don't rude and insensitive, be considerate but honest.
2006-08-31 17:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that things are moving too fast for your zone of comfort. You like him as a friend, but you also want to meet and make other new friends as well. Never stay with anyone just because they want you to.. when you want to end a relationship.. that is your right to do so. If he is a poor sport about it .. then you know he wasn't a good friend to begin with.
2006-08-31 17:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the this "and people say he loves u". Are you trying to tell me your bf loves me??
lol. I didn't know you could have a bf after two weeks of "dating". Umm... just ignore his calls, he'll eventually go away. If you made it "official", just tell him you made a mistake and you think you guys are better off as friends.
2006-08-31 18:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth.
Just so you know, he doesn't love you. Guys will say anything to get in your pants. Right now you're thinking "No, not this guy. He's not like that." But you are wrong.
(sorry to my fellow guys for letting the cat out of the bag about our true motives)
2006-08-31 17:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Edward 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth, try not to give him the oul "it's not you, it's me", cause if he love's you after 2 week's chances are he'll say that he'll change, honesty is the best policy, don't do it by text/e-mail or phone, cause that's horrible
2006-08-31 17:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Fly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy.. I can say.. talk to him, make sure he knows that it's over. Don't give him a reason to believe that you want to continue dating in anyway.. and whatever you do, don't tell him you would like to "Just be Friends," even if you do.
2006-08-31 17:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by 1yugpj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In person. If he has these strong feelings (have you known each other a long time?), then he deserves this much. Just let him know you don't feel the same, etc..............if he loves you or really likes you, he will be hurt, but will get over it and be okay.
2006-08-31 17:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by Carolyn F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not possible in only two weeks time, just tell him the truth. It is the ONLY way.
2006-08-31 17:36:40 · answer #11 · answered by perplexed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋