I want to tell this girl in my spanish class how I really feel about her. I'm absolutly not sure what she thinks about me, but I figured the best way to find out, is to tell her how I feel. What are some ways to let her know that I like her, without it being awkward?
2006-08-31 17:08:50 · 16 answers · asked by cowgoesmoo31 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had the same problem some time back. I desperately want to tell my crush about my real feeling. I don't think I should tell her because that would just ruin everything - including friendship. Usually, some girls who are considerably more mature would think twice before agreeing to accept the boys' feelings. So, I tell you what: Just show her through your actions. Smile at her. Offer your help. Help her. Be near her. Talk to her. Joke with her. That will tell everything. And yes, eye contact. Eye tells everything, from lies to love. Good luck
2006-09-03 23:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by unquenchablethirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's not that easy. But I do it every time regardless. If you don't truth will surface over time and ruin your delusions. You will look like an idiot in the long run if you don't say anything. It is a mark of confidence to talk about your feelings with a girl. If you can't get a yes or no answer, assume no. If she says lets be friends, and she has mostly guy friends, be careful. You are in danger of being a source of entertainment. Be careful, don't be a puppet.
2016-03-27 03:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lori 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a note on her desk...or in her locker...or sneak it somewhere you'll know she'll see it [like her Spanish textbook when she's not looking] and just put a compliment in there, like "you have really pretty eyes" or something you like about her...but don't be creepy....
Or just try to get to know her first, and be friendly without being obsessive, just talk to her everyday...and eventually start flirting...and that will naturally lead to you feeling more comfortable about asking her out...
2006-08-31 17:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by newyorkrose9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Brian! Well your right one of the best ways to know how she feels is to ask her yourself and tell her you like her. Or you could have a female friend ask her what she thinks of you. But I suggest you asking her how she feels. Its better because it is more personal and you dont have to worry if your friend was lying. Good luck boi.
2006-08-31 17:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spilling your guts about your feelings for a girl will only get you in trouble. If you like her, simply ask her out. If you babble about all your lovey dovey feelings for her, you'll turn her off and never have a shot with her. Take a deep breath, get some confidence, and ask her out. If you are asking her out, she knows you like her. Telling her all that gooey crap will make you seem obsessive and weak in her eyes.
2006-08-31 17:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awkward is a given.... unless you know her has a friend.... then it will not be so bad...... ok, she is in your spanish class ? so, ask her out in spanish..... look up the words, if not known to you, write her a simple letter, then she can solve the puzzle.... she will answer you or give you a wierd look..... God bless
2006-08-31 17:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something positive----ask her out to a movie.
And ask her to suggest which movie you both see.
She'll get the message that you like her.
2006-08-31 17:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just write it in a note. Its sweet and you can say it without interruption and you can plan what you say so you dont mess up and say something that she might interpret wrong.
2006-08-31 17:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by thats_hot_097 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out by talking to her and just casually bring up the fat hat you like her. See what happens.
2006-08-31 17:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by Kim Carter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she should watch some spenish movie with you to improve the language and then take her to your appartment.
2006-08-31 17:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋