How do i stop from being a jealous bf with the guys that my gf hangs around? I've let her know me and them have had bad history in the past but she insists everything is innocent and they're just friends, but i cant help but to feel a little bit jealous and betrayed by the fact i've let her know how im feeling and she continues to do her own thing, often sacrificing things we're supposed to be doing to be with them....am i overreacting? or should i say something?
2006-08-31 17:02:42 · 12 answers · asked by Shawn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealousy is bad in a relationship,... why not ask to hang around and get to know her friends.. they could be come cool guys and you can become friends too.
No reason to be jealous unless you caught her doing something to be jealous about.
The more you go on saying how jealous you are, the farther away she will go, until one day you reach the line... and cross it, and she won't come back to you.
2006-08-31 17:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You the two could desire to recover from your jealousy, lack of self assurance, and believe themes or the relationship isn't properly worth dropping it sluggish on. Why be with somebody you do no longer believe? in case you experience the could desire to ascertain somebody's messages and cellular telephone, then you definitely've have been given a undertaking. If he has to comprehend your each and every circulate once you're out, then he's have been given a undertaking. in case you are able to no longer each and every work out your themes on your very own, then seek for counseling. whether you injury up, neither of you is sweet better half textile for somebody else.
2016-09-30 05:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to feel jealous with a loved one. Just dont get too jealous by the point your are restricting her freedom by limiting her friends, obsessive over her... I think you should trust her untill she gives you a reason not to. Talk to her about it agian how you feel about the situation but respect her rights to have friends and go out.
2006-08-31 17:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married, and I used to have a problem with the fact that one my husband's ex-girlfriends works at the same place he works. For awhile, it made me doub thim, but after I did alot of soul-searching, I came to realize that I am a great wife to him, and if he ever messes around, then it will be HIS loss. I'm sure there is someone else out there who would appreciate me. You should think like that, too.
2006-08-31 17:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is bad but in your case you have every right to be jealous because she is acting like a whore.
Don't say anything, find somebody else because she's will cheat or leave you eventually.
2006-08-31 17:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by mr2demon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy can consume people and make them ugly to be around....if you really want this relationship to last, you must show trust. Try your hardest to not say jealous words. It's worth it in the end.
2006-08-31 17:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Zoey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hang out wit some girls she dont like when she gets mad insist everything is innocent and your just friends. then tell her you will stop hangin with the girls if she stops hanging with the boys!
2006-09-01 02:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by gonzo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can stop being jealous wen u have trust on her...well its not bad 2 be jealous...try to hang out with her friends...maybe u can be comfortable with them...
2006-08-31 17:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by jack_k744 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone, you have to set them free, if its real, they will come back to you. When you hold on to something to tightly, you've already lost it.
2006-08-31 17:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she inviting you to go with her. If not then you should be concerned. She should be with you if she is your girlfriend. It is ok to have friend from the opposite sex but you should be there as well.
2006-08-31 17:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋