I had a bad break up with my ex, to get back at me, she started seeing my best friend. As far as I know they are still dating. We've been broken up for over a year but lately I've been missing her. Should I try and get her back?
2006-08-31 16:21:56 · 14 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way! if your friend and her would do that to you then you need to surround yourself with some more caring people. That is so wrong especially of your friend, and the girl sounds like a real *****. I am sure you can do better.
2006-08-31 16:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! if she went as far as dating your best friend in order to get back at you then there is no telling what she'll do next time you upset her. Remember no matter how bad a person pisses you off there are certain bounderies that should not be crossed and dating your best friend would be one of them. Maybe he wasn't really your friend in the first place and maybe just maybe they were meant to be with one another. It happens that way sometimes. Move on. That would not be a healthy choice for you in the long run and she has already proven that there is no bounderies that she wouldn't cross.
2006-08-31 23:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by msshelene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not try to get her back. If you do that you not only lose your girlfriend but your best friend as well. The past is already gone, you should just accept her new relationship with your best friend. You have to learn to let go of the past before you can accept a new relationship. You may find that the new girlfriend is even better.
2006-08-31 23:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by kongchai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been broken up for a year and you still miss her-even though she's dating your best friend?? She must be HOT. That or you're madly in love.
Personally, I'd live and let live after so long; especially considering the fact that she is with your best friend now.
2006-08-31 23:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you want to get back together with a girl who hooked up with your best "friend" (with friends like him who needs enemies). I would let sleeping dogs lie. Don't go back. It didn't work out. Let it go. If you were to start seeing her again, you would probably have a lot of resentment and anger towards her. Better to let it go.
2006-08-31 23:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been a year now, it's time to move on. Leave the past in the past and look towards the future.
2006-08-31 23:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO they cant be trusted. Some best friend he was. Thats disgusting Some people are too foolish to believe. You can do better than her....she couldve at least left your friendships alone and hes guilty too Yuck....
2006-08-31 23:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she started to date your friend to get back at why, and to hurt you, why would you want her back? Do you feel like punishing yourself?
2006-08-31 23:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not try to get her back. Instead why dont you try to her best friend/friends?.
2006-08-31 23:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Gayan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you are looking for pain and heart broken again,leave well enough alone,if she did it once she will do it again,even if she did come back to you.Find some one that will make you happy and have fun and forget her.
2006-08-31 23:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋