i want this guy at work to ask me out how do i get him to ask me out?

Answer 1

Unfortunately, this isn't a chat service where I can ask you important questions and you can respond to help me with the answer. But . . . If this guy is interested in you, then make him notice that you want him. If he knows that, then you might want to get closer to him (e.g. walking by him in the hallways, strolling past wherever his station is, stuff like that) so he might start a conversation one day (this being some time from now. You have to be patient with men because for most it takes a lot of courage to walk over to a good-looking lady and ask her out or even talk with her). Now if he's not attracted to you . . . you've got to show that you like him. Keep looking at him, you know, quick glances at him when you're in the same room. Make conversation with him sometimes, hopefully he'll ask you out during one of those conversations. But don't initiate all the conversations because that will make you appear like you're coming on too strong. Only initiate the first and another. The first should occur naturally. You figure how to do that one. If he doesn't initiate any of the conversations, he's either of two things: doesn't like you or doesn't have the guts to ask you out. In this case, you give it some time and, like I said before, try to get closer to him in your work environment.