the judge with no mean for the skin color.....but in reality that seems to be PS (sorry)..iam black living in majority of white area. (because of my univ)..and been hanging around in the clubs for almost one year wish to have a girl ....i could say that i never succed even to dance with one ( iam good looking actually) .but that got me thinking whether that how they grown up there (there is almost no interracial relationship there) ..the only chance i got to chat with one ,i realized later that she is already known to every body in the club (whore) .....trying to behave nicely doesn't work ...the smile always faced with cool impressionve stops me even to approach her as she tells me dont try with me ! ...(by the way ...when she doesnt smile back or turn off her face means dont try !!).......that big dissapointment not even chat to one for almost a year ...comon is it possible that this area in Uk (small city in esex) ..are almost racists??.. ....or iam not that confident ?
2006-08-31 15:30:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went to a town once that was full of rich snobs. My family lived outside the town because we are anything but rich. I hated it there because most people wouldnt have anything to do with me.
but then I lived in a town where everyone welcomed me whether they were filthy rich or not. People are different and you are just unlucky enough to live in a place full of racist snobs. Eventually you will find that one person who is not a snob. Keep trying though and dont give up. Good luck!!
2006-08-31 16:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. I've never actually been to the UK, so I have no idea how things are like there for sure. But I highly doubt that every white woman who doesn't respond to you is doing so because of race.
I do wish you the best of luck.
And PS please don't start thinking that every white woman is a racist. I have met some people who have unfortunately believed it, and all their feelings did was bring more negitivity towards them. (I'm a big believer of like attracting like, as in if you only think bad that is all that will happen to you). Good luck, I'm sure you'll meet the right woman for you, whatever race that person may be.
2006-08-31 23:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Nixxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to tell. Did this girl go to you or did you go to her?
If she came to you, I would say maybe you need to start being a little more confident.
If you went to her, chances are that you just didn't find the right sort of person.
I would suggest maybe a different club, or maybe not a club. Maybe just stop looking all together! If its love you want, they always say it comes when you least expect it! =)
the racist part...that tricky. I think the best thing to do is just smile and make it seem like it doesn't bother you. Go and talk to them, get to know them and show them that skin tone doesn't make you you any different!
I hope I have helped even slightly. =)
2006-08-31 23:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by XxmelliexX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a white girl and have never once rejected someone based on their skin colour even their looks. they could be racist but you also need to look at your approach to these girls maybe that could do with some work. if you have any female friends ask for their opinion. meet girls at uni or through friends because clubs are sometimes not a really good place to meet people. good luck.
2006-08-31 23:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you're just meeting "whores" at the club, you should try going somewhere else to meet women.
2006-08-31 23:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by euphoriarevelation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes there really is racial descrimination in places.but it doesn't mean your not good enough for someone.go to different places every now and then.you don't have to hang out in just one place hoping to catch someone.the girl for you is not in that club, im sure..don't make it upset you.it's just that u can't find her there..enjoy other places and spot some other girls who might just be the right one..good luck...=)
2006-08-31 23:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by ~cara~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should come to springfield massachussetts. Interacial dating is the trend here. I really didn't understand your question to be honest, but I hope I got the gist of it.
2006-08-31 22:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person shouldn't be considered a racist because they don't get the hots for you.
2006-08-31 23:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying going to a different club. one where there's more black ppl.
2006-08-31 22:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Praise the Lord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Po' baby. Some body owes you some white pussie and you not gettin' any. Must be racism.
2006-08-31 22:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋