Friend: You're possessive, jealous
Friend: Selfish
Friend: You don't care about anyone but yourself
Friend: you are possessive
Friend: And you are jealous
Friend: You always have been
Friend: If that upsets you, tough
Friend: It's true
Friend: How are you today?
Me: prolly still possesive and jealous and selfish
Friend: Probably so
Friend: But I still want to talk to you
Me: if u think that of me i dont wanna talk to u
Me: u have no idea how much that hurts me
I know this aint really related to parenting but i want a parents advise
2006-08-31 15:30:09 · 29 answers · asked by Rebel 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
wow, this sounds like a very destructive relationship. I wish you would find new friends who are more postive with you, and help you be a more positive person. I think this is totally related to parenting. Having a child and caring for it really takes a lot of energy and love. You need people in your life who understand that, and who can help you. Maybe other moms who are in the same place? good luck to you, and I hope you can find some people who will lift you up and help you be a better mom.
2006-08-31 16:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Marcella S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Best friends are a lot like family. You say hurtful things to each other, but you still love each other. You forget & then you move on. Friendship is something to hold onto, work through your problems, and be honest.
I had some friends that put up with a lot of my moody crap and stood by me through a lot. In return I've helped them with a lot of things also. We've been best friends for almost 15 years! If we wouldn't have stayed friends through the hard times I wouldn't have people to share my life with, my thoughts, and to go shopping with. Our daughters wouldn't be best friends!!! There is so many memories you guys can make and the things that you can work through will just make your bond stronger.
Have a great night and good luck with your friend. Think this through before you end the friendship over a few hurtful words.
2006-09-06 23:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend why he or she is so busy labeling you if they are so wonderful and none of those things. Sounds to me that your friend is jealous, and definately selfish. Selfish enough to not worry about your feelings. A true friend at some point in time is all those things. You dont get upset over someone or something you dont care about.
2006-09-06 18:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you already know that this in not a good friend. Sometimes friendships need breaks. I had a friend years ago in high school who was not a good friend, but now we have reconnected as adults with kids and what a different person. Try to find people who make you feel good about yourself, and keep your distance from the rest. You seem like a wonderful honest friend.
2006-09-06 08:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Christy K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where is this coming from? Are you? If so, maybe that friend has had enuf abuse and finally told you the truth, and coming from a friend it hurts. If it's not true, is your friend the selfish one who's so spoiled that he/she resents the attention you're now showing some other friend? Get to the bottom of where this is all coming from, then you'll know how to proceed. You may need to check yourself, or kick them to the curb and find a friend that's worthy of you. Good Luck either way!
2006-09-06 16:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by dct1218 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, a true friend is there for each other no matter what. If you can't be there through the rough times, good, and or bad, then you're friendship is tested. This however seems to be a test to me. So talk to him/her one on one see what's really going on, and pray that the friendship blossoms for years to come.
2006-08-31 23:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you have more things then your friend? Do you have more friends then your friend? It sounds like your friend might be the one who is jealous. Take a step back and see if you can figure out what is going on with him. I feel like your friend is hurting on the inside and doesnt know how to let you know. You do not have to take this kind of abuse tho and I know you know this, If it continues you might have to let him go as because friends dont treat friends like this.
2006-09-04 22:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat19582002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What else are friends for? If this friend is close enough to know these things about you......best be listening. Take it with a grain of salt and really think about yourself. Are you really this way? Can you change to be better?
And if you change for the better --- what would your friend say about you 1 year from now?
2006-09-06 19:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by heeboy3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"If that upsets you, tough?" This is not a person who cares about your feelings. I don't know why your friend is saying these things, what brought all of this on, but it seems extreme. Find out why. If there isn't a good reason, show this person the door.
2006-08-31 23:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would really think about what they said and look deep into myself to find some kind of equilibrium. but it seems to me that you don't need friends that say bad things about you or to your face I'd be careful around them and try to get into there heads to find a way to understand why they feel like this towards you.
2006-09-06 13:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by wolf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋