on my train too and from school. a girl keeps sitting next too me who i hav no interest in. what should i do stop riding the train or tell her to f off????? cause she neva shuts up
2006-08-31 15:29:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok ill tell her to f off then
2006-08-31 15:52:47 · update #1
lol u guys got some nice responses here :)
2006-08-31 15:54:24 · update #2
Ken and Wendy M with your message right there.....you scared the **** out of me
2006-08-31 15:56:46 · update #3
well b the better person and tell her dat u dont feel comfortable w/ havin her sit next 2 u or talk so much-she cant take a hint,then sit sumwhere else
2006-08-31 15:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'd quit riding the train because of it. Perhaps. if she sits by you, try moving, if she follows, and you still have a problem, let her know you are not interested. Either which way, it seems she will get her feelings hurt, but you have to look out for your self and sanity. Maybe try the nice approach, and simply tell her, I am sure if you try the mean approach it may work, but where does it get you. Maybe simply tell her you need quite, before school. Sometimes it doesn't hurt to do things the nice way FIRST. But for you to stop riding the train because of it, that would be putting more on yourself. Perhaps a simple talk will do it. ; )
2006-08-31 23:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she'd keep sitting next to you if you weren't a nice guy. Girls, especially school age girls talk a lot when they are nervous. Or maybe, just maybe she sits next to you and likes talking with you because she's not interested in you as a boyfriend and feels comfortable that she's not getting any signs from you that you'd like her as a girlfriend. She might find comfort in that and would like to become friends. If she talks that much then she might REALLY need someone to talk with. Remember that everything happens for a reason and everything that happens during your life ends with a lesson. You just have to be open to absorb the meaning of the lesson.
2006-08-31 23:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are not intersted and tell her that her talking so much is bothering you Sit in a diffrent place . Ignore her . But do not let her chase you off the train .
if that does not work tell her up fron lady you are really bothering me and talk to damn much could you please sit elsewhere and not bother me any more .
Or get a MP3 or I Pod and headphones put em on and ignore her that will work well to .
and tell her on no uncertain terms ypou are not interested.If that doew not work i have no idea other than not taking the train
good luck
2006-08-31 22:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by crps_1964 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just because you have no sexual interest doesnt mean that you cant talk to her as a friend. dont stop riding the train, dont tell her to F off, if you have to stop talking to her, just start talking to someone else. Occasionally add her into your conversation. Maybe she will continue to talk to that other person or you will talke to that other person so much you wont be bothered by her. Once I hated this guy so much that I just started flirting with his best friend until the best friend gave in. The other guy got the message and I broke up with him.
2006-08-31 22:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by circusdejojo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you need to be rude to her.
Swearing at her might cause tension if you see her on the train again, which is not a good idea if you get the same train everyday.
Just tell her bluntly (but politely) that you don't want her attention, or ignore her until she gets the message.
2006-08-31 23:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by teddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Script for you:
"I noticed you come and sit next to me quite often. You're probably a nice person and I'm flattered, but I'm really not interested right now. So if you would, please, I'd like to enjoy the train ride without conversation."
2006-08-31 22:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by ann a 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sit next to somebody else until she gets on the train or pile all your crap on the seat next to you so it's unavailable. Or strap on a pair of headphones and just pretend you can't hear her...she'll get the hint after awhile.
2006-08-31 22:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take a book or some music with you on the train. Eventually if you act uninterested she will get the point. Don't be rude about it though.
2006-08-31 22:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's obvious that manners weren't taught at your school if your going to talk to this young girl like that. I was going to suggest that you try and befriend this girl as we can never have too many friends. But it sounds to me like your far to good and important to even consider this as an option. Sorry for being so honest and I don't expect 10 points for this response but needed to say it anyway.
2006-08-31 22:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋