Ever regret loving somebody?

Question

Was wondering if you ever loved someone but it went to waste? and did you regret loving that person? I heard a song today that mentioned love being a waste and it's sad.. because so often it's true.

"When you love someone but it goes to waste" from the song Fix You by Coldplay

Answer 1

i dont care to get into it in detail but ya a few ppl i regret lovin and carin about

Answer 2

Love never goes to waste, only when you want it to. If you had been in love and some where along the line things did not work out as it should, at that moment it would seems like your love went to waste, but give yourself some weeks, maybe months, and when you look back, tell yourself this, at least you did really loved that person, and one day that person will realize that there was no other love like your love, and messed up. Now your love have to grow even much more for the next person that comes into your life, because not only you have moved on, your love have matured and you become a better lover each time you have been rejected. Yes we do sometimes feel that our love have been wasted in the natural, but the love that you had given is now a part of that person that you have loved on, that would never be lost or wasted. Look at it this way(you were honest in sharing your true love which most people don't have). You were only giving what God has giving you-(LOVE), for God is Love, whether you give it much or little, it's still Love.

Answer 3

I have loved before and lost but never regretted knowing of loving the person. Each love we have is an experience of unique opportunity to see someone from all sides. You learn about people this way. Sometimes it is good and sometimes love is bad but never a waste. If you look at the broken love from a bad or good experience that you had, that relationship should be used for your growth and understanding of yourself and your heart. If used in the right way, as a life's learning tool, then Love is Never Wasted. You really only wasted your time not learning, about life. Then your time at life is wasted. So hang in there, love and learn and you will never waste your life.

Answer 4

Wow that is tough, regret loving possibly no, I have loved and lost big. Even to death, I am a widow, and yes its tough to love and to lose. But I think I would rather love and lose than to not have the experience of loving. I have also loved and devoted 5 years to a man that "it went to waste" boy did it, would I say I regreted that one, well maybe but truly I only regret devoting that much time into something that went to waste. I suppose if you are true to yourself regret for loving would be no but regret to choices or actions or words yes. To love someone is a gift you give yourself because if you think about it the life lessons you learn just from giving love are amazing. That is a good song and yes sad. To lose love is never a good thing but if you stay focused (and trust me I am not one to say this but I will) on what you gained while being in love then you have truly lived life.

Answer 5

Yeah, I've been where you are but now that I look back on it, it wasn't a waste. You have to be happy about the time you had with that person and how you felt. Obviously you had good times before it went sour. Life goes on and you will love again. Anytime you find love, it's not a waste. The only bad love is no love at all...I heard THAT in a song once.

Answer 6

I sort of have a philosophy that you shouldnt regret any love you give, even if it breaks your heart. What is the point of living if you cant exactly have love or have loved?

I know everyone regrets love at one point, and you are right it is sad. But you always can look back and learn and remember and create from the past and from those people. I am a firm believer that people come in and out of your life for a reason. Why regret love.... if you are going to regret something why not regret the things you did to make people miserable or the sandwich that gave you food poisoning... dont waste it on love.

Answer 7

I don't regret loving him but I do wish things would have turned out differently--perhaps a lifelong friendship if nothing else to show for all we had gone through; but in the case of women (perhaps some men, too) if we're not willing to assume the door mat position then the man is forever unhappy with us. I do wish the best, but I had to move on and for that, there could never be any friendship. A real loss because we can never have too many true friends in this life.

Answer 8

I regret staying in a relationship for 15 years. So I guess you could say I regret loving this person because I sort of feel like I wasted 15 good years of my life. Maybe someday I'll feel different but for right now I regret loving him and the relationship.

Answer 9

I can't say I have ever regretted it. From each person I have had some really great times and I have also learned things. Some good some bad, but I would never think that loving anyone for however long or short was a waste of time. I think everyone crosses our paths for a reason.

Answer 10

Love is never a waste..it is better to have felt love then to go through life with out feeling it. Garth Brooks has a song called The dance..he says I wouldn't have missed the dance. He wouldn't have missed being with her even with all the pain of the divorce.
My daughter wrote this poem one day when I was sad from not getting to be in a relationship i so wanted to happen ..
LOVE IS : Something undescribable by nature. Everyone has there own feelings towards it. Everyone feels it. It's something that will interfer with our lives no matter what. It's the one thing that makes life for us humans worth living, knowing that we have the power to feel, to feel the affection of someones soul, to be so close to someone that you feel that you've known them your whole life. To me that is love.
don't ever feel love is a waste....good luck!!

Answer 11

Love is not a waste of time. Just because you might love the wrong person at the time does not mean it is a waste of time,it is just a learning experience. Love and grow.