I have a boyfriend that I really like. A lot. And I'm pretty devoted to him (least as much as you can be at my age). But I'm a flirt. And when someone flirts with me, I just naturally flirt back.
We (my boyfriend and I) have a friend that used to like me. He knows that we're going out, but he -insists- on flirting with me. My bf is dense when it comes to notice these things, but he notices this because he does it a lot! We have actually had a "fight" about it. I want our friend to stop. It's destroying me and my relationship. What do I do?
2006-08-31 14:31:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore him or when he starts flirting when ur boyfriend is there dont even notice him and be all over ur boyfriend. if he dont get the message then, well take more drastic measures, such as insulting him in front of everyone when u tell him to stop and leave yall alone.
2006-08-31 14:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start making out with your bf right in front of him. Or make it look like he's assaulting you and your bf will beat him up for you. Do some thing. Tell him off or some thing.
2006-08-31 21:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your hardest not to "naturally flirt back." im not saying youre doing anythign wrong.. it just probably fuels this mutual friend for next time .. and he ends up doing the same thing over again... and if it continues after that.. let him know straight up that you dont want him doing it anymore.
good luck!!!
ten points?
2006-08-31 21:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by mervelash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to keep yourself in check and don't flirt back. Also, talk to this friend and tell him to stop it. In a nice way though.
2006-08-31 21:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by ****stars***** 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him....
"stop you frekin flirt and get away from me and my BOY FRIEND i am in a happy realationship and am NOT giving up my boy! so stay away from me i may flirt back but that don't mean i like you! STOP and get away from me boy!
it might sound babyish but it is all i could come up with!! =o)
2006-08-31 21:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop responding to his flirt if you're serious about it. Flirt left withot any responce doesn't go very far.
If you think he won't stop, tell him about it seriously and privately. Show him that you respect him, but flirt is no longer welcome.
2006-08-31 21:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him to leave you alone. And if he doesn't avoid or ignore him.
2006-08-31 21:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by Me ! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋