Let say u have a gf who does alot of thing 4 u, one day she got pregnant b'cuz of u, will u run away like a coward or ask her to abort,give stupid reasons such as i'm not ready only ready for sex or be a man who holds responsibility, standing beside her & fulfill her dreams of becoming ur wife someday & tell her that i will built a hut & slowly turn to castle & u are forever my pincess?
2006-08-31 14:27:33 · 15 answers · asked by boogyman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL LOL LOL that is hallaryus you nasty if I was a gay i'd tell you to be a man GROW UP FACE YOUR FERS YOU DOOFIS.
2006-08-31 14:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by ?HOTTIE? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys should try to figure things out to make it work in somehow and bring that child to the world that has nothing to do with anything, and a life shouldn't be lost for what 2 adults were doing, kind of make sense this oppinion?. Doesn't mean you guys have to get married if you guys are not in love!!!, that can be a mistake since getting married is already a big issue and it's alread hard when 2 people love each other, why do it if love is not there?. Just to let you know you may not understand this now, but probably someday you will: "Congratulations" :). If you avoid abortion maybe someday that kid will be a good reason to live and fight each day, and maybe someday you will find the right person that will also do a lot of things for you, which is what you would deserve. Ask all the help you think you will need and keep yourself close to your friends or family in a situation like this.
2006-08-31 14:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um....well i wouldnt build a hut and slowly turn it into a castle. more likely get a job working all the hours possible and buy a semi or council house,but yeah stick by her and support her no matter what. Any man with any respect for you or himself would never try to persuade you to abort, or even worse run away. any man that does this would be a terrible father anyway. if these is a real life question then good riddance to the scumbag,there is plenty of men out there who would consider dating a single mother,so dont think that having a baby is your ticket to be single forever,hope it works out
2006-08-31 14:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by david_c1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is naive. There is no single answer, it all depends on the nature of the relationship. NO ONE should have a child until they are a mature adult in a solid marriage or marriage-like relationship with a loving partner. If you're with a man who is with you for sex and you get pregnant, it is more YOUR responsibility than his, because it's YOUR body. If you're looking for marriage and children, find a mature man who you love, with a job and a future who loves you and respects you. But before you do this, make sure YOUR life is worthwhile. Get YOURSELF a career, be independant before you decide to depend on someone else.
2006-08-31 14:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you're obviolusly freaking out right now. i know my name is samantha and so i generally don;t qualify as a guy to answer your question. but i would like to vice my opinion in this issue and ask you some questions.. hopefully it will be of some help to you. how do you feel for your gf who is pregnant? do you see a future with her? if you love her and feel that there's gonna be a future for you both, may i suggest that you guys keep the baby.. otherwise it will definately affect your future with her with all the guilt and stuff. talk to your family about it if finance is a problem. they may or may not freak out.. but i guess with the arrival of the new-born, mistakes will be forgiven anf attention will be given to the baby instead. be strong and try to think rational.
2006-09-04 03:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if my GF who have done alot of things for me... and even to the extend of making me satisfied in sex..
One day if she get's pregnant because of me. I may be pressurize by her situation, but I will definitely make her my wife. Give her all the confident she need from me, stand by her all the time..
2006-09-03 18:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my gf get pregnant coz of me, I will stand beside her and fulfil her dream to be my wife. I believe we should be responsible for our act and this is always my principle
2006-09-01 01:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u make a certain decision, you should be able to stand up for that decision irregardless of the consequences.
u chose sex, therefore u should be ready for pregnancy and even marriage..
ur gf did a lot of things for u already... it is time u did something for her..
what she needs now is your support and comfort, not regret and rejection...
stand by her... make her proud that she has a MAN beside her...
2006-08-31 14:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by alvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one that knocked her up, it is up to you to take care of her and the unborn child, It is you blood. Whether you marry her or not, that is your decision, are you ready for a commitment at this time? Find those values that your parents raised you with and do what is right.
2006-08-31 15:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never get my gf pregnant unless we were planning to start a family early, and if I did, we'd work it out.
2006-08-31 14:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by prophetoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old u r, young=abortion
2006-08-31 16:37:59 · answer #11 · answered by dirtracr99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋