Ok I am 21 and I'm engaged and my fiance and I want to have sex, but I've never had it before and he hasn't either. I know what it is, but I'm just not sure how to start off and stuff. And if you can tell me what its like, and any other advice just Pease help thanks!
2006-08-31 14:22:27 · 23 answers · asked by Maryanne J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I don't think anyone wants to give you step-by-step instructions, but I think we'd all agree that our first time was pretty easy to figure out. Read up, watch an adult movie, ask a very close friend. Congratulations on making it all the way to 21!
2006-08-31 14:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you the truth ... an honestly averyone can't dispute this... your first time as a woman will hurt and you probably wont achive and orgasm...unless u get it before penetration. as for him he will do 1 of 2 things he will not beable to *** or he will almost imediatly. take time enjoy foreplay. -touching kissing and that sory of thing but don't get nervous just enjoy the fact that you love each other and that there really isn't a wrong way to express your love sexually. starting off set the mood. light some candles and spray the bed sheets witha soft smelling parfume. don't be embarressed about anything there is nothing to be afraid of really. as a piece of freindly advice the best position to loose your virginity (least painful) is with him on top.
2006-08-31 21:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by babycrazed2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's terrific that you've both waited until you made a commitment to each other. There's really is no right or wrong way to go about it. Just start with some kissing and kind of let things take there course. Of course you'll both be nervous, that's normal, but just take your time and be gentle with each other and it will be the most memorable thing you've done up til now. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-08-31 21:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you have saved yourselves this long, go ahead & wait until the wedding night. Before that, read a book or two....
"The Joy of Sex" is still a classic. And, once you two get through with the wedding & find yourselves alone, you will feel what is supposed to come next!
Congrats!
2006-08-31 21:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THere's a book called "The Joys of Sex" find it fast and read it. If you can manage all those positions you will have a riot.
But you know I'd wait till your married, that is sooo rare these days I don't know if I should believe you. LOL
2006-08-31 21:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed wait till your wedding night you're so close. Don't ruin it now. Wait. Wait wait. Please for the love of God and eachother wait. Then well how do I uh explain this. Didn't you get sex ed in school? Dress in your sexy lingere or some thing make him horny you too and just do it. Put part a in part b and go for it on wedding night only. LOL. Come on girl.
2006-08-31 21:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start off my making out and let it go naturally! Don't be too serious either. Laughter is important while having sex. It makes everything easier. There are plenty of sex books out there as well! Good luck!! and have FUN.
2006-08-31 21:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by beach chatta 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he should be on top cuz it it easier the first time. you will enjoy it like crazy!! lol. start off with fore paly like usual if u guys do that and just instead of stopping keep goin, then it will just happen, u need to talk about it if u havent, then u should talk afterwards too to see what u liked and what u didnt and what u will do later.
2006-08-31 21:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait till you get married. It will come natural when you do become intimate with each other. Don't rush in. When you get married it is going to be so special for the both of you. Please wait if you can. Best of luck!
2006-08-31 21:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok rules:
1. start by hughin' him
2. start kissing him
3. start kissing him on the neck
4. kiss his ear ( some get really horny when you do it) it might work.
5. go slow not too fast.
6. do it with passion
7. chill and let it go
8. don't be afraid just do it
9.use protection
10. and make him do it hard ok?
so good luck.
2006-08-31 21:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by Telma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋