Okay, i really like this guy, and i gave him some hints then i wrote him a letter and told him everything i felt about him.....to be more specific i'm 18 and he's 26 years old...well anyways...i told him....and well he told me he has a g/f already!! :(......but not the problem is that i can't forget him....i've been liking him for almost 8 months!! what should i do to forget HIM....i really do, because it hurts alot..i even think i loved him!!! :( well anyaways, any good ideas to forget someone????
2006-08-31 14:02:18 · 23 answers · asked by Cecy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude hes wayyyy too old for you and he has a gf already, find someone your own age who dun have a gf
2006-08-31 14:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoever said u had to forget him ? If anything , u should try harder to respect him! Appreciate him for the man & person that he obviously is (respectful, honest & quite moral-minded). He could be both, a valuable -friend & good -idol to u. An idol as to just what type a man u would want ...if and when u ever do finally find yourself in a relationship. By being honest with you he not only showed u due respect... but,he respected his g/f as well. Good-man!
As for what "love" u thought you felt for him . I am sure to say that it was (is) nothing more than a sense of deeply -felt infatuation. Love & infatuation can often run a veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyy thin-line! Be ye not fooled by the follies of thy own heart ! Smile.
I would suggest that u please do re-evaluate the situation ; #1). In-fact,perhaps the fella is a bit too mature for you ? #2). at 18 yrs old, there is really no-need that you rush to experience such "complicated-affairs of the heart " (love). Believe me, the time for such experience(s) in your life will eventually come! Until then , i would sincerely advise that you go on to enjoy being the youthful 18 yr old that you are .
Last ... but not the least ........try concentrating more on your academic achievements & future career-goals. That alone should be more than e-nuff to help keep your mind off "the Guy" & guys for now !
2006-08-31 22:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by anthony J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twenty six is way too old for an eighteen year old. You are in different developmental stages. . .it is a blessing in disguise that he was one of the good guys and didn't try to take advantage of your attraction to him. I am not trying to lecture you,but don't get so caught up in guys right now, most of them are little pricks right now anyway, wanting to sleep around, not knowing how to respect a woman like she should be treated,etc. I'm not saying be a nun, but be selective. Know that you are worth the wait; and right now you should be concentrating on developing a healthy sense of self, thinking about how to land a good job (by going to college or some other type of training), maintaining close girl friends (because they are the ones that really have your back) and maybe dating occasionally. But set goals to accomplish, you will love yourself for this later in life. . .
2006-08-31 21:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by In God's Image 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you made a complete fool of youself when you wrote him a letter.....DUH!!!! Leave him alone! Don't bother him, talk to him or contact him in any way. You can sit home and have a pity party and cry.....or, you can find new friends, go to new places, read some self-help books and a million other things to get over this guy who could care less about you. Stop whining!
2006-08-31 21:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, Heartbroken..One of the most hardest emotion to feel =[...
Well when ever I have a heart break I go to my friends or someone I'm real close to & we just talk & just try to forget him...Or, I go and buy a bottle of some hard liquor & get drunk of my *** & be to hung over in the morning to even remember or care about the guy....Ha-ha..If your not a drinker then go for my first edvice...
Guys come and go, life goes on!! You will have soo many other guys in your life time, don't hurt your self just for one guy...Just think, there's plenty of others out there who are even then the one you lost...Take care!!
2006-08-31 21:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by Savanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy is all I can say...how did you fall in love with him and not even know he had a GF? I mean for 8 months...that's a long time. Were you guys hanging out and stuff? Screw him...no offense to him...but it just doesn't seem right that you'd think your in love and he has a GF...sounds like you two were screwing around and it got the best of you and now that you want to take it to a deeper level he can't cause of GF......let him go..just keep yourself busy honey.
2006-08-31 21:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Marisa Lizette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're describing a crush, not love. Love is what happens over time between two people having a relationship together. Time to move on and find someone else. That's how you forget someone.
2006-08-31 21:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Cecy, Love is hard specially when it's one sided.He's really to old for you and besides that,He already has a g.f.You need to get out with your friends and have some fun and enjoy being with your friends.And if you want a b.f.try and fine one closer to your age.Be smart and take care.
Your Friend Clowmy
2006-08-31 21:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
... ... ...I was hoping not to share this...before i was home schooled I was the most popular guy in school, I had everything except a gf...the one i got just used me to get popularity, a month later my war veteran grandfather died and I was left with money...the next gf I got milked every cent out of me, I became a joke all around campus...after the loss of my grandfather and 2 heart break, I went through a year and a half depression...of course that was 2 years ago, I'm over it now...
But my point is that things like that can never be forgoten, nor the people who are part of that memory...you just have to learn to live with it...when you think of your situation, just think of my pathetic life...well...i wouldn't say pathetic...
2006-08-31 21:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by WW2 Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with I love oranges answer. do that. Get over him find a man closer to your own age or wait a few years. Move on girl. He's out there mr. right that is and he'll give you all you want and so much more. Ready to get your socks blown off? LOL. Hmm wonder where my one and only is.
2006-08-31 21:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal... One day you'll find a boy who you'll REALLY love, then this will feel like a little crush compared. Otherwise there isn't really anything you can do to get over him faster, just try to keep yourself busy and do things that you enjoy.
2006-08-31 21:09:39 · answer #11 · answered by eufrosyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋