i like this girl in one of my classes ,i have never talked to her but she seems really cool.how should i go abou t meeting her.any suggestions
2006-08-31 14:01:46 · 30 answers · asked by wesley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. Talk to her do that talk to her. Let her know you like her. Flirt, smile, go out of your way to be around her. But don't over do it you may scare her or she'll think you're wierd. Just let her know you like her. Get some guts and do it.
2006-08-31 14:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to sit next to her in class and start a casual conversation. Ask her to help you with the material or offer your help. Then arrange time to meet with her "to go over material". Try not to come on too strong at first. When you meet with her for the first time actually make an effort to pretend that you genuinely wanted to study:) Meanwhile, try to show the best of your personality: be funny or if you are not a funny guy type, ask her something that will make her open up to you like her childhood memories or something. While she is talking, make an effort to listen and ask follow up questions. This has a double bonus: she'll appreciate how attentive you are and you can get some clues as to what you two have in common and go from there, e.g. you both love dogs or collect something. Then say that you've been studying for too long and you are getting hungry. Ask her if she is hungry. If she says she's not, ask her if she would keep you company then.
I hope this works. Best of luck to you!:)
2006-08-31 21:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try to get to know her as a friend first. It is always good to be a friend first, and date a friend because u already know u get along. However, don't become too much of friend that it becomes awkward to date one another. My suggestion... be the friend that flirts. :-) That way it becomes a friendship but yet it is still on the romantic side. As her out to a movie or something. But the best thing about getting to know her is that you can find out what she likes and then choose a fitting place. For instance, if she likes art, you can take her to a museum, which is usually free to students on certain days. :-)
2006-08-31 21:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ebony Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be near her whenever you can. When the time is right, you will talk to her. As long as you can begin dialoque, if you guys are compatible, everything will take care of itself. If there happens to be another guy in the picture, the strategy changes. You have to then get somewhat aggresive, I mean that in terms of expressing you feeling for her. Otherwise, you will become a close friend, and will only have a chance if they dissolve. Good luck, and happy hunting.
2006-08-31 21:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus...how do you usually meet someone? by c o n v e r s i n g maybe? Just walk out of class next to her and ask her a question about homework or something about the class to break the ice. Then introduce yourself..
2006-08-31 21:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by mrs michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try saying hi the next time you see her. Her reaction and body language should tell you, even ask her if she could help you out with homework, who knows you may not like her once she opens her mouth to speak...you know but you have to try right.
Just be friendly, if there is something that should happen it will.
2006-08-31 21:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up and introduce yourself. It's really tacky and immature to have one of your friends go and talk to her about you. Make sure you don't do that. I personally respect a guy that has the balls to come up to me and introduce himself. Just keep the conversation light hearted, fun, and flirty. If she seems to like you, I would definitely recommend asking her if she wants to hang out or go see a movie or something. Just don't move to fast or she'll get REALLY freaked out.
2006-08-31 21:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Bebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I'm a girl i kno wht othr girls feel , so trust me i got my boyfriend wth this method..
1st:drop anything near to hr then go & pick it up.
2nd:say u r sorry 2 hr & tht u didn't mean so
3rd:introduce urself saying:my name is......,she'll tell u hers.
4th:try 2 discuss any subject wth her
5th:try 2 make hr laugh (BE FUNNY)
AT the end tell her tht u r pleased 2 meet such a sweet person like her.Then now i think she'll be yours.
ENJOOOooooooooY
2006-08-31 21:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by cheetos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say hi maybe she mite like you to but she just doesn't waant to tell you girls are like that I know well because I am a girl so get to know her better sit by her talk to her make a conversation but most of all just be yourself.
2006-08-31 21:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by ?HOTTIE? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happen to bump into her on your way to lunch
say "hi sorry i just had to say..."
then compliment her nice earring or hair
or whatever catches your eye
and ask if she wants to go eat food with you
and dont try n get her alone either
just be real bold. if you gotta
laugh at yourself a lil do anythin to make the mood
2006-09-04 01:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by cloud.cover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋