Current events, sports, thoughts of future career moves, entertainment and Your views on what a relationship should be. That way He can easily understand where the boundaries are going to be and if the effort will be matched by the reward. being too easy takes away value and being too hard takes away the drive. At least talking about pleasant things as well as unpleasant ones gives each of you a chance to see how the other reacts to positive and negative topics. The goal should be to get a well rounded view of each others ideals.
The ability to express yourself and his self will set the direction of the relationship. If you talk about mutual friends keep things limited and do not bad mouth Your friends. That sends very negative signals. Try and keep the conversation positive but do not be afraid to push his buttons.
Watch how he reacts to things and the variance in his body language and vocal tones.
Stay away from religion and politics for the first few encounters with him.
2006-08-31 14:07:17
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answered by old codger 5
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If you want to talk about somethings with a guy think what sports and hobbies they like to do. Also some women like the samethings example; hiking, bowling, skiing, beaching, biking, and the list continues.
The key to finding what to talk about is that you must find common ground, for a friendship to become interesting
2006-08-31 14:05:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Mindy H - you cant in basic terms wlk as much as a guy and start up off speaking approximately intercourse to him. that in basic terms doesnt artwork... that's certainly an exciting question and that i might decide to appreciate and answer to it. lol yet i supose Mindy H does kinda have a factor b/c it became on television that a guy thinks approximately intercourse evry fifty two seconds... yet yea... sorry if that dusnt help in any respect lolz. gud luck xx
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answered by ravelo 4
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anything talk about sports and how life is going current events men like to be comforted by a woman just have fun get close and make him feel good
2006-08-31 14:06:39
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends on how long you've known him. Are you at a lack for conversation with a guy but want to get to know him? The best way is to ask questions about his family or hypothetical scenarios of morals, for example. Or better yet, to talk about yourself to see how he responds to who you are. Small talk is overrated....if you want to really get to know someone.... go for more intimate questions!
2006-08-31 14:03:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Men like to talk about public things (i.e. sports, cars, news, house repairs). they like to discuss work related issues and romantic relationships.
2006-08-31 14:07:11
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answered by cboroville@sbcglobal.net 2
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Ask him. Every guy is different. If you want to talk to me, talk about music, baking, cooking, photography...
2006-08-31 14:02:12
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answered by Wise Old man 3
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anything everthing hobbies what u like 2 do
2006-08-31 14:07:40
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answered by Hi!! 2
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well i am in the same thing just start something and trust me he will go on and on soo u dont have to do any talking maybe a little!!!!
2006-08-31 14:03:07
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answered by cutiepatootieox 1
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Movies, music and hobbies, interest work too
2006-08-31 14:02:32
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answered by GIrl 1
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