2006-08-31 13:44:23 · 24 answers · asked by iandad4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try to talk to her more often. Tell her some of your feelings, get to know her and yourself better. It takes time.
Guilt, fear and other negative emotions can get in the way of our relationships. Try to make the most of your time together now, be forgiving of yourself and her - none of us can be perfect, we are learning and changing all the time. The more you get to know yourself the more at ease you will be with your mum, yourself and your relationship with each other.
Just be nice to yourself and enjoy whatever time you get with your mum.
2006-08-31 16:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mick H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends how long you've been away from her.
If it's recent, it's very normal and you will get over it.
If you have been away for a long while, then it is time for you to go visit her.
If after visiting her and being back for a month or so you still cry when you think of her, then you should consider that there might be something wrong. It is possible that you are not doing well, and when you think back at your mum, all your emotions flow; although not necessarily related to your mum directly. In any case, you should then decide whether your present life is the right one for you, or whether you need a change (that doesn't necessarily mean going to your mum's city/town/village).
2006-08-31 21:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by ekonomix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mum and all my family live a long way away too I phone my mum daily just to chat and gossip and visit her overnight every month plus once ever 2 or 3 months I spend a week with her it's not ideal but at least I speak to her daily which is more than some people do who live in the same town.
Just make sure you stay in close contact and see her when ever possible also send the odd surprise letter mothers love getting the odd chatty letter saying how much their kids love and admire them (my mum has a carrier bag full)
2006-08-31 20:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to miss your Mum and I bet she is missing you. Keep in touch by phone, email, letter or take a bus and visit. Your Mum has brought you up though to be able to be independent and make a life for yourself, so get out and live your life, just remember apron strings should be made of elastic and that way you can return to the maternal bosom without feeling trapped. (they also work both ways)
2006-09-01 05:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by oldbutwise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way. I have such a close bond with my mom that i do get teary eyed when i know she is not close to me. I would just call her or if shes not home leave her a message on her ansrewing machine ..better yet write her a letter. Tell her whats going on in your life and ask her about hers. See how everything is going...it will make u feel alot better.
2006-08-31 20:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are homesick sweetie and miss your Mum , which is perfect normal, if you are working, is there no way you can shift closer to home, what about Mum, is there some way, she can be nearer to you. I know that it is hard, because my son lives in Australia, and i live in New Zealand, and that is a whole new country, I hope to go other there someday, but its so expensive.Can you ring mum, everyday.........if so do, or txt her, good luck and god bless...........
2006-09-04 15:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mum lives 22 miles away & she left me when i was 16 months old....i cant stand her but i have to learn to forgive her for what shed done before i could move forward with my life!!
dont cry about it talk to someone & it should be a counsellor, trust me they are worth there weight in gold
2006-09-04 16:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because ur a little sensitive>>there's nothing wrong with that.......it's a good thing you really love her....it might sound cheezzy but i think u should call her and just talk to her about anything going on in ur life,,, boyfriends, work, skool, ect....you'll bothh end up laughing, save the i miss you talk, it'll only make you sadder, when you get off the phone you'll feel so different i promise gooD LuCk...
2006-08-31 21:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by →Sasha← 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it's normal....you miss her....you should plan a meeting with her at least every couple of weeks...you go to her...and she comes to you....she prolly feels the same as you....are you working away or in the forces?...do you hear from her often?...or not often enough?...what i suggest is...you make a surprise visit...just turn up....i bet she would be thrilled to see you...sorry that you feel like this...wish i had them feelings for my mum...unfortunately not...but call her...tell her you miss her very much...plan a visit...good luck
2006-08-31 21:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move further away another 50 miles!
2006-08-31 20:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋