trust him but now its geting so bad he never did anything to me beind my back that I know of. but what is upsetting me is he has a cellphone and i constntly cheak it to see if hes talking to other girls how do I stop being like this and trust him, I am getting so much anxiety over it, And we argue everyday over a cellphone because he just got it, and I am very suspies all the time cant spell.lol
2006-08-31 13:31:12 · 8 answers · asked by luckylove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, lay off your boyfriend. After this many years you know he's being straight with you. Seek some counseling, you have some serious self-esteem and security issues and maybe some anxiety disorder that need taken care of. Listen, I'm not coming down on you, just telling you how it is. Take care of YOU. Do it one day at a time, but not trusting someone that has proven to be trustworthy isn't a sign of mental stability.
2006-08-31 13:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i struggle with the aid of an analogous concern. and it sucks. i don't understand if i will ever have the potential to have faith my boyfriend returned. yet whilst i won't be able to start trusting him quickly then i visit might desire to hit the line. existence is in simple terms too short to constantly be questioning and finding over your shoulder. i don't prefer to stay in a relationship w/o have faith. no count if he merits it or not. and risk is that if he's being so secretive he's hiding some thing. i might desire to take a number of my own suggestion. much less complicated mentioned than performed. stable good fortune.... be stable.
2016-11-23 16:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going through, I've experienced the same anxiety. WHat you need to do is try to relax and focus on the positve things in your relationship. How much time does he spend with you? How does he treat you? Does he give you any indication that he is cheating?
2006-08-31 14:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you have been with this guy for 9 and 1/2 years and he never gave you reason to cause doubt in your mind.hum sounds like you have a problem with trust issues and need to seek help from a head doctor.. leave the poor guy alone he sounds like a keeper.
2006-08-31 13:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is excited about his cell phone, he will get tired of it in time and he wont be checking for calls as much, and if you have trusted him for 9'1/2 years you are a very lucky girl.don't condemn him until he does something to be condemned about. he is like a kid with a new toy.
2006-08-31 13:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a cell phone too. maybe the trust went out the window when its on and off for NINE years. thats a long time to be on and off and maybe u dont belong together if u can trust him or stay together.
2006-08-31 13:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by ThE GreAtEsT thEr eVer wAs! JaNa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i feel you...trust is a big thing. my boyfriend cheated on me and im still with him even know i dont trust him. trust your heart if it says that he's cheatin most likely he is
2006-08-31 15:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by Miya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you're right.
2006-08-31 13:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋