2006-08-31 13:06:04 · 15 answers · asked by iandad4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends why she stopped fancying you in the first place. Maybe she is just fickle.
psst, between you and me, if she is just fickle, a good way to get her attention again is to TOTALLY ignore her, find a new chick. If she stopped fancying you for fickle reasons, she'll soon be knocking at your door again
2006-08-31 13:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get back your ex is https://tr.im/ZeTfA
Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.
Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.
She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!
Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!
2016-07-19 22:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to her, stare into her eyes and smile at her until she blushes. Offer her a neck or back massage....women LOVE that. ANd never ask for sex - women love to shoot down that idea (if it's not her idea to begin with!). So, you have to kind-of trick her by making her think your not interested in sex, but you just want to play with her hair and rub her back and kiss her face...In fact act like it is a game to do all these things with-out getting it on in the bedroom...and if all else fails offer her a glass of wine, and then another...... It's NOT ABOUT YOUR LOOKs if they haven't changed much since she first was attracted to you - it's how you act around her and treat her.... If you follow this advice it will work.
2006-08-31 13:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/l4PaM
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-26 01:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, find out subtlety what she likes and build from there, don`t go over the top, do one thing at a time, and make sure you get it right. Nothing spoils the night when you have to run out to the shop to get something you forgot halfway through a romantic dinner conversation.
2006-08-31 13:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey broth wll first stop lookn like a tramp and shave daily have a shower more often lol and treat her with respect and stop treatin people diffrent in the house ok kl lol kt (ya sis)
2006-08-31 16:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by katie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u get fat? maybe u should lose weight. what happend u need to be more spacific and if she isnt phycally attracted to u then shes just not and u have to figure out whats wrong with you first.
2006-08-31 13:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by ThE GreAtEsT thEr eVer wAs! JaNa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cover yourself in credit cards
2006-08-31 13:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What made her lose interest? Do what you used to do to make her excited.
2006-08-31 13:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an extension implant
2006-09-03 21:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋