I really really like this guy. He says that he really likes me back, but doesn't want to be in a relationship right now because he's busy with school and sports, and we live a long way away. In guy lingo does that mean he doesn't want to be with me? or does he not like me at all and he's just trying to be nice? I don't know what to think anymore. I need this answered from a guy's perspective. Help!
2006-08-31 12:57:56 · 5 answers · asked by Mary Ann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
id say he is probably busy with school and sports. Thats a problem a lot of girls have. They always try to over analyze what a guy says. 9 times out of 10 when a guy says something he means just what he says. Living a long way away doesnt help though especially if you are going to different schools. Since he is still in school he would probably want a relationship with a girl he can see every day
2006-08-31 13:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he likes you too then he probably does. He's just trying to keep his options open, as many guys perfer to do. We are lustful creatures, and we want it just as much as a tom or a bunny rabbit. So we'll go to extreme lengths to keep from having to pin ourselves down to a girlfriend we won't see very often. He could also be telling the truth, he probably doesn't have the kind of schedule conducive to a relationship with a woman. When you have a lot on your plate it often is hard to fit another piece of steak on it. So don't fear, he'll probably come around some day. An I'm telling ya, it's probably not far off. He'll probably be getting a car soon, and being the raging bag of hormones he is he won't forget all the girls that think he's "neat".
2006-09-03 19:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by ianr1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In guy lingo...YES...that does mean he doesn't want to be with you. Some guys are straight-forward, they speak their mind and let everything out. Some guys are the opposite. They either hold everything in or try to get their point across by being as polite as possible (which means lying as well). I think he's trying to tell you that he's not interested by being as friendly as possible. Hope this helps you out!
2006-08-31 13:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by T_Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he doesn't like you enough to put in the effort for a long term relationship.
2006-08-31 13:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Subjective philosophy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just being trying 2 be nice i guy said that 2 me before
2006-08-31 13:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by iheartcoolcaconxoxoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋