my ex-boyfriend is leaving for college tomorrow morning and im in my senior year of college. he is mad at me for reasons unknown, but i want him back more then anything in this world. he wont talk to me, i've been trying to call, text message him, leave him messages on myspace. please, i want him back more then anything in this worldddddd. how can i get him to listen to me, or possibly get him back?!
2006-08-31 12:45:13 · 16 answers · asked by iwonderrr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move forward, there is no future in the past
2006-08-31 12:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you what exactly you can do to have him back, what I think I can tell you, is that if he loves you, he will go back with you. In somehow I am in the exact same situation but I am a guy, I bet you already tried everything you can to have him back, same as I did with my girlfriend. I talked with my best friend about what was going on, and it's true what he said making refference to a similar experience he had "if you have already tried everything you can, now it's time to let time do its work". And in somehow it's working, if he is meant to be with you, he will be back, or you wont see him again (in the case he doesn't love you, but I'm sure that if that's the case, the less you want is to be with someone that doesn't love you right?). Try if you have something else to do, then take a break and let time do its work, but when is time to let time do its work, don't call him and nothing, let time do its work, remember that and good luck, I hope your luck will be so much better than mine!
2006-08-31 19:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is hard to make someone talk with you. You really need to give him space and take care of YOU! Cry it out, talk with your girlfriends, write in a journal. It sounds like you need to figure some things out without him. It really makes it worse when you keep calling him, he is mad, and I am sure he gets even madder when you keep bugging him. You are not looking very good to him when you do that....give him space and time. Hang in there, you are still young and have a lot of possibilities in your life.
2006-08-31 19:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him come back. Everything happens for a reason. Give him space, maybe he just needs time. Things always work out even though at the time it doesn't seem like it. It will get better. Maybe he just needs to be on his own for awhile. If he wants you back he'll contact you.
2006-08-31 19:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! If he doesn't want you/to talk to you, be the strong independent type and move on with your life. Don't act needy...it's either a turn off or the silence from you will start making him crazy. There are lots of guys out there. Go out and have fun and you'll be surprised at how soon you'll realize how many great guys there are out there
2006-08-31 19:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably no way you can get him back, but the only way to get him to listen to your feelings is to stop trying. Honestly. If he loves you still, he'll listen, or if he has any respect for you he will. Guys seem to get angry alot, for reason unknown to us naive girls. But you have to listen to your heart, and so does he. Maybe he's going through some rough times and all he needs is space. give it to him, and if he cares he'll come back.
2006-08-31 19:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by neocollie75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's going through that much trouble to not come into contact with you, give it up.
You dont want to become a stalker.
Just move on and find someone else.
2006-08-31 19:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nack Jicholson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-20 01:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to talk to you, leave him alone.
You've let him know you want to talk to him and make amends. Now leave him alone - he'll come around if he wants to.
Move on with your life.
2006-08-31 21:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a letter, email, voicemail... anything you can to get him to see that you miss him... and if he still doesn't answer you then, its time to move on.... dont waste your life because there are plenty of good men out there thats would want you...
2006-08-31 19:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by Vinnis B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋