It's not fun. Ok, this guy who I've liked since 8th [I'm in 10th now] and haven't talked to for a whole entire year, is in my 5th period. I really liked him ya know he was my first crush, and we would always stare/look at eachother in 8th, and we kinda continued it in 9th too, but not this year. Ne way, the teacher called on me to answer a question and I answered it in kind of a quiet voice [cuz i'm shy] but he said something [i dont know what it was but i know it wa about me] and like that whole side of the room laughed. I'm really sad cuz I really 'loved' this fool like he was my first major crush and I thought he kinda liked me back bcuz of the staring thing we always did. And this one guy [not at my skewl] has a major crush on me, but I don't like him bck like that but I don't wanna hurt his feelings cuz I've led him on too long.. I'm sooo depressed. =[ I want that mean fool [my major crush] to die tho..like badly.
2006-08-31 12:43:47 · 11 answers · asked by K 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Making him think I don't know he exists actually made it worse for me!!!!
2006-08-31 12:49:06 · update #1
Young lady...Want some good news?
One day, maybe 10 years from now. You are probably going to be married to the most wonderful guy you've ever met. He is going to treat you like his queen and you are going to be more happier than you have ever been in your life. Chances are that you will have beautiful children and a nice house. Just a great life.
Now think about it, you are bummin' over this little high school twerp who barely just started puberty?!
That should make you laugh!
All I've said can come true so long as you do well in school, don't get messed up with the wrong crowed and be very selective of who you want to be romantic with...In other words, respect your self and the rest will come naturally.
Just remember that most men are jerks but there are some nice ones out there.
So cheer up and be glad that you didn't give more of your self to this knuckle head! If anything it will teach you to make them earn your eye by how they act and treat you...not how only on how they look.
Best of luck.
2006-08-31 12:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by joe b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be upset of this. Believe me its not worth it. He probably was flirting with you all those times you were staring at eachother, but let me tell you alot of "boys" do strange things when they like a girl. When I was in HS I remember this one time this guy liked this girl and he hit her in the head with a hammer. YES a hammer. Turned out he really liked her. At this age they really do not know how to express themselves. But anyway, even if he is just a jerk, things will turn out fine and you will find another guy to crush on soon. Dont sweat it.
2006-08-31 12:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry you are feeling so sad
but if it helps then judging by your grades .. you are both quite hormonal
for girls that means crushes .. falling in love ... being sad .. not feeling good enough
for boys that means being tough ... showing that masculinity etc
you know babe he may just be trying to act tough .. this wont last and even though it hurts right now , in a few years time he may just realise that the most manly/masculine/strong thing to do ... is to show affection
this doesnt help right now with your sadness , but maybe understanding why he is doing it , may take the hurt away slightly xxxx
2006-08-31 12:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Peace 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard!
At least you're dealing with your feelings though. It's worse if you try to hide this from yourself and deny it.
Everything's okay; maybe he's feeling his oats or thinking he has to prove something to new friends. Pretend you don't even see him for a while, as hard as that may be.He'll be back staring at you googley-eyed in no time, but I think you're over him big time.
2006-08-31 12:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ignore the one u said was mean it will bother him. don't pay him any attention and especially don't stare at him. make him think you don't know he exists and that does work lol :)
Ok then i think he likes you and sorry but he might think your stuck up. and just by him making a joke about you in class like that, i hope u lose the crush on the ***hole ok :)
2006-08-31 12:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell and move on. This is hardly a unique situation.
2006-08-31 12:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god is good aint he lol think of it as a test you said you dont like either of them so they aint worth ur time sides by leadin him on further itl jus make it worse hope it helps
2006-08-31 12:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by free2gorockin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. I am sad for you. Just forget about him and move along if you can.
2006-08-31 12:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Blink-182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work is the only solution to sorrow
2006-08-31 12:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by KSJTam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are immature. I think you can do better!
2006-08-31 12:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by Sky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋