im really an outgoing person but i like this guy so much that im all shy around him and im starting 2 not b more comfortable around him but i was wondering if he is turned off b/c i was shy in the begining hes not shy around me
2006-08-31 12:40:35 · 19 answers · asked by jess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not a turn-off. One of the things I liked about my girlfriend when we first started going was the fact that she's not the party type and does not always need to be out. She's outgoing, but she doesn't have a lot of guy friends and she's not the flirtatious type. Basically, I never felt I would have any worries. We have a lot of the same things in common. Guys have different interests and some are after girls for one thing. But if he's a good guy, he won't be and he'll like you for you just the way you are. Don't ever feel like you need to change yourself for someone else. It took me a while to find someone like my girlfriend, but it was worth the wait. What I've learned is if you give it time, things will just come naturally. I've always been a little shy to warm up in relationships, but once you do you'll feel your regular, comfortable self. Good luck.
2006-08-31 12:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by niceguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a sprint shy would not hassle absolutely everyone. Being cripplingly shy and awkward does turn human beings away nonetheless. If a guy is a apprehensive harm then i could be became off by ability of it. sometimes i'm going to enable awkwardness and shyness slide by ability of if he has different aspects that outweigh the undesirable.
2016-11-06 04:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy can be cute, but can also be off-putting. I've had some girls frown and turn away from me when I've said "hi" to them, which turns out was their way of dealing with a direct greeting. I'd later learn some of them actually wanted me to ask them out, but they more or less shrunk back into their shell. Bummer. :p
2006-08-31 12:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, it's not a turn off, but if it lasts too long, it might be.
Hopefully, when you have been together for a bit, you will be more relaxed and more like yourself.
If he is still asking you out on a date, then it's not a turn off for him, as yet.
I don't think you are being uncomfortable with him, but with the way you are acting. Relax and enjoy your time together.
2006-08-31 12:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just convence yourself that you are a wonderful actress & when ur around him, act as thou nothing in the world could bother you, that he is the one who is nervous & shy to be around you. So much so , you know that you have to act cool to take the pressure off of him!!Works for me!!
2006-08-31 12:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes not shy around you i dont think that you shouldnt be shy around him....maybe you should hang out with him some more so that way you could feel more comfortable when you see him
2006-08-31 12:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by the_doc2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Innocence is a bad thing in my opinion. Most real men want a woman who knows what she wants. Shyness is a tease. Yes it's a turnoff.
2006-08-31 12:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Matt Beezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends how shy you are. if you are completely quiet and the guy is trying to make a conversation then yeah its pretty weird and we think that you guys are pretty weird too. but if you actually talk to him then its cool. we think its pretty cool cuz we dont like girls that all the time are talking and talking cuz that can get pretty annoying cuz we are like we wanna talk too.
2006-08-31 12:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys dig shy girls. Be yourself, and relax.
2006-08-31 12:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by The Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like shy women not like afraid but you know staring at you then looking away. it's hott and fun
2006-08-31 12:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jonathan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋