this is an email she replied to me...is she letting me down easy, or is she scareed, like she says she is...because she is only 13 and never been in a relationship before??
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
Now, I know this is a no, she clearly said she wants to remain friends, and trust me, I am treating that with respect and honor. Now my question is, is she just scared like she said because we have been such good friends for a long time, or because she doesnt see me like that. If she doesnt now, will she ever? What should I do?
2006-08-31 12:39:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you stupid pedophile!!! leave the kids on the play ground! just say no to child! no no sleepy w/kids
2006-08-31 12:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by sinistersister69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does only see you as a friend, I know that is hard to accept. My 13 year old had a guy friend she talked to on the phone everynight, they would cut up, laugh and actually talk. He asked her to be his girlfriend and everything changed, she said it just go t weird and when he called, they wouldn't talk they would just sit in silence and occasionally say something. They broke up not to long afterwards and now hardly ever speak.
Don't ruin a good thing, especially if she is not ready. Be her friend and accept her for who she is, but don't make her make a decision you will regret in the long run.
2006-08-31 19:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate 2 this girl b/c im 14 and trust me shes letting u down easy b/c she doesnt want 2 ruin the friendship..... at least she still wants to be friends
2006-08-31 19:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.For only being 13 she wrote you a mature enough letter, I feel she is sincere in only wanting you as a Friend, She was blunt and frank about her words. leave it at that . being Friends... and don't worry if she does change her mind i am certain she will let you know.
2006-08-31 19:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes letting you down easy honey, stick to just being friends!
2006-08-31 19:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't scared to ruin a friendship, she just doesn't see you that way. She probably never will...at least not any time soon.
2006-08-31 19:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's scared then it's good that your giving her time. But don't wait forever, if she wants to be in a serious relationship with you then she should tell you.
2006-08-31 19:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Melleow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just doesnt see you more than friends and she just wants to keep it that way
2006-08-31 19:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not want any commitment at all.....just friends. The words used are not of affection or desire.....leave it alone and wait. Dont contact her, just wait and see.
2006-08-31 19:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!
Move on
She is not the only girl in the world dude
2006-08-31 19:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋