ok this guy he is like my best friend and we trust each other and love each other like brother and sister and now i have a huge crush on him. yesterday after gym class i kissed him and since we have been closer together and seen alot more together but waht if i try to kiss him again and he doesnt kiss back will we lose friendship cuz i really like him and i just want us to be perfect for life (i think he likes me to bt im scared to ask him) so please give me some advice
2006-08-31 12:31:24 · 14 answers · asked by Pay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-31 13:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by Barry DaLive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He kissed you back the first time didn't he, he has some feelings for you. Keep in mind though he may not want to ruin the friendship. This is going to change your relationship a lot. Do try to kiss him again I'm sure he will kiss you back. By kissing him you showed him that you liked him as more than a friend, you didn't need to tell him with your words you did it with your actions. Next time you guys are alone talk about what you both want to happen with your relationship now. Whether you want to be just friends or want to try dating each other to see how things work out.
2006-08-31 19:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to kiss him again
you should also look for any indication that he is giving you to kiss him
if he doesn't kiss you back tell him that you thought that he was giving you some signs for the past week, month that he wanted to take things to the next level.
this is only if he doesn't want to go any further!!!
if he doesn't want to take things to the next level ask him why
i know that you don't want to hear the truth girl
but i think it would be best if you knew why he didn't want a relationship with you.
then ask him if he could forget about the whole thing and see if you both could go back to the way things were
but I'm sure that he has a crush on you
maybe even a bigger one than you expected
go for it you have nothing to lose
and please try not to think about your pride and if he will turn you down
the only way that you will know if things can work out is if you go for the plunge
2006-08-31 19:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats a hard one had some like that happen to me but i would say **** it go for it or u will never know what could of happen then u gon regret it n think about it in the future n break ur head especially if he gets another person. so if hes mature enough ur friendship wont go bad
2006-08-31 19:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur choice is it worth destroying a good friendship. i'd stop being a bother to her and be a close close friend not a brother like friendship that's creepy
2006-08-31 19:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask him what it meant to him when the two of you did kiss? tell him that your starting to have feelings for him...it could go two ways...he'll either tell you he feels the same or he doesn't...if the two of your already have a strong relationship as friends then you never know he may just feel the same way...that's what your instincts are telling you afterall isn't it???
2006-08-31 19:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by billy_babe_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him do the kissing . you are pushing your self at him which may give him other ideas. If he wants more than just being friends he will let you know and if you keep pushing your self at him you may lose him completely.
2006-08-31 19:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead kiss him live life to the fullest. if it makes him feel uncomfortable apologize. and make sure ur friendship is not in debt.
2006-08-31 19:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by ClaireBear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think friendship can be the same after ur in a relationship. but thts jes mi take on it
2006-08-31 19:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by jazzi.pinkpanther 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel stop being a chicken hey it turn out great cus im goin with my best friend well now he's my bf
2006-08-31 19:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by ♥yessy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he tries to make a move again then go for it (whut grade are you in if u still have agym class?)
2006-08-31 19:34:43 · answer #11 · answered by Brandi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋