How do you get her to stop? she's 18months.
2006-08-31 12:19:16 · 22 answers · asked by bananapepperz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Just ignore her and she will grow out of it. Don't let her know that it bothers you just walk away and let her scream!!! Good Luck
2006-08-31 12:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by stormy2u2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this can be maddening, but it really is just a phase. You shouldn't just ignore it though, because the child must understand that this is not acceptable behavior. Instead, tell her firmly, and looking into her eyes, and at her level, that she cannot scream. If it continues, there needs to be a designated spot, such as a "naught chair" or corner where "all the screamers go". Just be consistent, and count to ten. I know this is frustrating, but if you are consistent, you should see an improvement. Another thing to keep in mind is she is still young, and her vocabulary is limited, so screaming is a way of communicating...just a poor way.
2006-08-31 16:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by ♪♫♪ La Dee Da ♪♫♪♫♪♫ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what they call testing limits. Lets see how far we can push mommy before she breaks! If you let her scream and then give in she will learn to hold out longer. When my two would do it to me, (they still do sometimes and they are 4 and 7) I would sing a song just as loud as they screamed. This works with my son well. (hehe it's kinda like torture to him, but he tortures me with the screams) He gets ticked off and yells for me to stop and I ignore him. He's learned that if he wants me to stop singing or ignoring him then he needs to stop screaming. BUT MOST OF ALL, DO NOT GIVE IN!! She is testing you and nothing more. It will stop. It's a learned behavior and she just needs to be retaught. Once she stops screaming you immidiatly praise her. If she starts again you get up and walk away. Don't show any emotion. Kids thrive on that. (emotion) Especially when they see they have pissed us off! They get a kick out of that. I swear my two talk about it behind my back. They sceme to see who can do it first! (LOL no i'm just playing they really don't do that.)
2006-09-01 01:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 2 1/2 year old did that and we put a mirror in front of him
then he didn't know if to laugh or scream more. Twice of seeing himself look and sound so funny Stop doing it
2006-08-31 13:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by aaricka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is approaching toddlerhood, and unfortunately, that is part of her job description. how is her vocabulary?? she may be screaming out of frustration because she just can't get her point across...
You just have to ride it out for now. Talk to her calmly. I know it is easier said then done, but you getting frustrated will only aggravate the situation. Also, try giving her options...perhaps she is just trying to assert her independence...and if she has a choice in certain matters that could work towards soothing her. It is a tough age...
Good Luck
2006-08-31 12:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Trixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a toddler too. He's also beginning to whine and wail when he doesn't get his way. If he's not sleepy, hungry, or screaming for any legitimate reason, I tell him to stop immediately, and that if he doesn't, I'm going to give him a spanking. If he doesn't stop, I spank him. That usually makes him indignant enough to scream for another minute, but then he stops. Now he's beginning to stop when I warn him, and I don't have to spank him as often.
2006-08-31 12:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lanani 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through this right now with my 13 month old twins. When they throw a tantrum I just ignore them, and if the continue I put them in their crib. That usually works. With in 5 minutes they'll either be asleep or playing quietly.
2006-08-31 13:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by geskuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to stop temper tantrums is to IGNORE them. If you're at home, just go into another room (assuming she's safe that is!). If you're in public, either leave immediately or walk away from her. Once they realize temper tantrums have no affect, they'll stop throwing them.
2006-08-31 20:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by I ♥ EC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is having a temper tantrum - let her scream it out - when she sees it doesn't work she will stop - as long as she sees it upsets you - she will continue to do it until she gets her way or you don't show any emotions when she pitches these fits!@
2006-08-31 12:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter did it too. I calmly pick her up, put her in a safe, quiet place, and walk away. Once she realizes she's not getting a rise out of me she stops. It's harder in public. I would just pick her up, and silently, but quickly remove her from the situation. It's hard and it can be embarrassing in public, but it is much more effective than getting riled up.
2006-09-01 07:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by gspmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋