Don't ask how, but I discovered women's clothes in my bf's closet. I know they are his, not another girl's. Do I bring it up? Do I let it go? Is this a problem? He is very good to me and I think I love him, but.....
2006-08-31 12:18:35 · 31 answers · asked by Isis 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is just in touch with his feminine side. They make the best boyfriends. Tell him to share it with you..offer to do his makeup some night too
2006-08-31 12:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by neelyohara2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just ask him about the clothes. If you two are close enough, there should be no secrets. If he seems embarrassed about it don't make him feel bad, just be there for him and let him know that you're there for him if he needs to talk or whatever. It all depends on how close you both are to one another, otherwise I wouldn't say anything if you both aren't. Whatever you do, don't act like it's something he should be ashamed of because you may hit a sore spot.
2006-08-31 19:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rosalind55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now lets be honest here, we've all tried an item of women's clothing on in our lives....BUT not very many of us go on to own items of our own..If he has full outfits you may need to worry, it depends on his level. If he just likes the feeling, or the danger of how taboo it is, you maybe fine, we all have out quirks, but at the other extreme, he may have real issues, that maybe so great, that they put you off. But no-one else can answer this one for you.
2006-08-31 20:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now let's not jump to conclusions yet. Lightly talk to your boyfriend about it and when you ask the question do not seem judgmental, be understanding. Believe it or not those items of clothing could belong to some female member of his family, but you need to find out the truth.
2006-08-31 19:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it bother you? If yes try to talk to him about it.. If he had it in his closet and knows you come over, obviously he wasnt try that hard to hide it... Maybe he wanted you to find it so that you could talk about it. Some people are into that sort of thing and would like if there partner was accepting or even played along with it. You have to decided whether or not it is something that you could deal with in your life.
2006-08-31 19:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk it through with him. It will eat away at you if you don't. There may be a perfectly good reason for this situation but you need to establish what it is. Don't be overly aggressive with the questions as he will probably be defensive initially when you ask him and you don't want him to just clam up. Good Luck and I hope it is resolved well for you
2006-08-31 19:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mozzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...i haven't heard this one before. lol don't worry! i think every man has a feminine side. if this is really bothering you, try talking to him about it, or bring something like it up in a conversation. also, if you love this guy, don't worry what he wears. but are you 100% sure they are his? just a curiousity question. but try bringing it up if it's bothering you in the next few days. you'll feel a lot better when you know the truth. ;-)
2006-08-31 19:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by love_me_4_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should flat out ask him if it bothers you. If they are his and he likes to dress in women's clothes, how do you feel about it? If it is another girls, how do you feel about it?
Honesty in any relationship is the best policy. I hope you get the answer you need from your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel about it.
2006-08-31 19:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself if you could really live with him, whilst he wore womans clothes around the house.
If you can then it's not a problem and good luck to you, if it bothers you then you should probably leave him, sorry.
2006-08-31 19:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u can ask him nicely but try not to let him suspect u that u stalked him or something just know ur rights and who u r if u love him then this is the right choice for u go for it.
2006-08-31 20:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋