so, ive met this guy. hes nice,funny,cute, and smart. seems like the perfect guy, right? WRONG! This guy is younger than me and has been engaged 3 times.(Ive been enaged 1ce.)Hes telling me hes "falling for me" already! (we havent known eachother a month yet!) What do I do?!?!
2006-08-31 12:06:24 · 25 answers · asked by rachey b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st off...don't call all guy @ssholes...that's the type of stuff that make them call us b!tches...besides he doesn't sound like one
2nd...Leave him alone...4 real. My best friend went through the EXACT same thing. Only thing is she ended up marrying him later cuz she got pregnant by him. Now they're never happy cuz she doesn't trust him. She feels like he gets 2 close 2 ppl 2 quick and she's scared that he might meet another girl and within a couple weeks start 2 like the other chic more than he likes her, his wife of 2 yrs and mother of his child. She made a bad decision. Don't do the same.
2006-08-31 12:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Inquizitiv1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously either emotionally insecure and needs someone to latch onto permanently or he gets in over his head easily. That makes him a tiny bit pathetic, but I don't see how that makes him an asshole instead of a nice, funny, cute, smart guy with a flaw.
2006-08-31 19:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he falls in Love to quick or at least he thinks he's in love. Not all guys are assholes, although the older I get, the more asshole guys I meet. It's not always the younger ones. I won't date guys that are younger than I am just because the ones my own age are still trying to catch up to my maturity level. It's a fact, we just mature faster.
2006-08-31 19:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by smiles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all men are *******.
Why are you a generalizing bitter woman?
Ever thought that perhaps you attract and go for *******?
Analogy: I've taking many dogs on a walk. Strange how some dogs just can't help themselves when they come upon a pile of dog crap. Some just sniff for a moment then move on. Some can't stop sniffing it. Others roll in it until they are covered with it.
What kind of dog are you?
2006-08-31 19:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
And that makes him an asshole because.... Look he does have some issues, he compromises too soon, but you leaving him would be more than enough, no need to call him names and insult him online.
He needs a girl that wants to commit as fast as he does... THERE ARE PLENTY OUT THERE. Just dump him, he is not an asshole though.
2006-08-31 19:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. By the way how does that have anything to do with being an asshole?
Work on your people skills then maybe you won't fall for it anymore.
2006-08-31 19:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by jaybrdxxx69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible. maybe hes the type of guy that falls for girls really easy. and i still dont get the point of why we are assholes. just go with the flow thats all i can say. just cuz he has fallen doesnt mean that you have to try hard in order to fall too. just go with the flow and everything should be cool.
2006-08-31 19:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u are just not ready for that kind of committment and that u think that it is way too soon to be talking like that and that u want to take the time to get to know him more and that if he is not willing to do that then he is not worthy of being with you
2006-08-31 19:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, far far away from Mr.Insecure (3 engagements???!!!!) And to answer your main question, it's because they think they can get away with it and some woman will love them for being *******....don't be that woman!
2006-08-31 19:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by SadToday22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make him an asshole. Just a little confused in life. Just don't be fiance #4
2006-08-31 19:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋