I mean you hear people call you ugly then some people think you are cute and you look in the mirror and don`t know what to think what is up with that and I know it is about the unseen bond not the physical love bond or the plutonic love bond but how do people judge if you are ugly or cute I mean what do they see it`s just a face and body?
2006-08-31 12:03:57 · 8 answers · asked by T-Bone 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
It's all in the eye of the beholder. Seriously. To me, my husband is the hottest guy I've ever seen and he's never been popular or had lots of girls after him... which baffles me. As long as you think someone is good looking or someone thinks you are than that's all that matters (except for internal beauty) it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks.
2006-08-31 12:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by starsmoak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to say what everyone thinks, but no one will admit for fear of sounding shallow. And many people will probably comment that I am shallow, when they really know I'm telling the truth. In most relationships the first method of attraction is appearance. And everyone has a different idea of what is attractive. If we didn't, then we would all want the same person. But luckily we all have different ideals and therefore when one person looks at someone, they see ugly. But when someone else looks at that person they see beauty. Everyone has different taste.
And no matter what people say, a certain part of every relationship is in physical appearance. You wouldn't want to be physical with someone who totally grossed you out. And how many times do you hear husbands and wives comment on how ugly their spouse is? Never (in a happy relationship). Physical appearance does have a lot to do with who is attracted to you.
The trick is finding someone who is attractive to the eye and even more attractive to the mind. You can think someone is simply cute, but as you get to know them better and find common ground with them, they seem to become more attractive in your eyes. Appearance is just the first step to a relationship. Once you have formed that bond, and you love eachother, it doesn't matter what you look like.
As people age you don't divore that person because they are less attractive, you love them just as much, because you have learned to love more than the looks.
It is a complicated thing, but everyone is attractive to someone in this world.
2006-08-31 19:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,like Simon Cowl on American Idol who has to always comment when somebody doesn't look good to his own likings.He really needs to consider that they are not going to have cookie- cutter people from the many regions the people come from.Sometimes it's hard to judge talent while you look at purple hair,just an example(I had red,white and blue hair once,lol),but he is supposed to be the professional there,and it just is not right.I think it is also an inner thing between your own ideals and measurements.I think we value appearance and clothes way too much in our society today.Simon,please wear a real shirt!
2006-08-31 19:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people may say that you're ugly just because they're jealous of you. They also may not like features on you. But you might as well forget about the stupid and mean comments, Just focus on the good compliments you get and let those fuel you. To at least one person, your good looking and thats all that matters.
2006-08-31 19:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all in beautiful in different way, Do not listen to people who think you are ugly because you know yourself more then anyone. Just may be god doesn't create you the way they want you to be, but in god eyes you are beautiful like anyone else. when you look your self in the mirror look for beauty and you will find it. Have self confidence and those think you are beautiful they love you , who you are no matter what you for your self. I am beautiful fore figure, black and sexy hot beauty I do not care what people call me fat or what ever I just feel myself sexy and beautiful.
2006-08-31 19:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by tangind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just to remember all the compliments you recieve, but forgot all the insults. You will feel much more better about yourself.
2006-08-31 19:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF someone good looking said you were good looking then you are good looking. If someone ugly said you are good looking and someone else said you were ugly, then you probably arent that good looking...
2006-08-31 19:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by Joann Foxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so superficial find someone who loves you for you.
2006-08-31 19:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by tj_george2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋