at my boss, but i have to work, how do you handle this? he knows he done me wrong, and is kinda buttering up, but im pissed and he knows it. i think i deserve an apology, which i know i wont ever get, i just dont know how to behave in front of him when i cant stand him
2006-08-31 12:02:04 · 11 answers · asked by ruby_71572 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to understand he is ur boss and there is nothing u can do about that... U just have to suck it up and, learn how to control ur anger. Things like that should not be taken personal, nothing at work should be taken personal. Just relax and let it all go. It will do u no good to have it in u, u'll just end up ruining ur day and the day of others with ur attitude. Like i said relax things will turn ur way. No bigy let people talk...
2006-08-31 12:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel over a brunch in a cafeteria with people around so you can be relax. And state how you feel again. If this time around he doesn't hear you out go home and do whatever that relax you or calm your nerves like watching T.V or something that will get your mind off of your boss. Ask your boss also if you can take a weekend or two to get you head together. And have quality time for yourself to make adjustment. One thing me and you can work on is not letting people be our source to get us being in a good mood or in a bad mood. The reason we get so mad at people because we let them lead us to whatever mood they put us in and we rely on them to make us either feel happy or sad. No one should be that person to move you from having joy in your life or peace. Learn how to have peace when things come up against you. And when you can do that you'll learn that your boss can't make you mad anymore or nobody else. And God continues to help me with that cause I struggle sometimes. But don't worry things will change and know that things happen for a season and for a reason. So on that note there not gonna be there for long but will show you something in a new light or way.
Keep ya head up
2006-08-31 12:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by cookielover3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and you are right, you are not going to get that apology. After years of enduring nonsense from my bosses I've reached the stage where I just ignore them. Sure they upset me but next day, I act as though nothing happened and believe me that bothers them more than anything else, because it proves I am the better person.
2006-08-31 12:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just do your job and ignore him. My aunt always tells me to "Kill them with kindness" if he knows he pissed you off mess with him a little bit Be nice say good morning you know just smile and laugh thats all you can do. People are always gonna piss you off so why get yourself all fired up about it. Maybe your get the apology sooner then you expect. You could also just ignore him other then business conversation or work duties.
Good luck and relax
2006-08-31 12:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by yo-yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!! :o) I appreciate how you feel. Whenever I'm stuck in a situation where I HAVE to deal with someone who I am mad at - I will pretend in my head that they are a psychology project. Instead of taking what they say personally - I will take note of their behavior and of their words as if it was my 'job' to make a report on them. It sounds a little odd - I know - but it actually works. [sometimes] You become an observer instead of a participant. [in your mind] You still respond to them by answering their questions - but when they say something that really offends you - you say to yourself, "Oh - that was interesting. I wonder how many times he/she has used THAT line!!" Just a thought. Craig!! :o)
2006-08-31 12:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and face it that you will always have people that will piss you off there will always be people that you cannot stand. If it's that bad go get a new job,but just know there will be someone there that will piss you off ot treat you wrongly, that's the world we live in get used to it.
2006-08-31 12:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try talking to him (no screaming or yelling) but if you are getting paid well and you need the money jsut get over it, call it truths and move on!
2006-08-31 12:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by mac_lefty_05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget and forgive - nobody perfect. You got your point - what you want more.
Don't worry be happy.
Life is life don't waist time to improve nothing to something unuseful.
2006-08-31 12:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like your paycheck and a place 2 live I suggest u get over cause news flash life isn't fair
2006-08-31 12:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ice Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more details.... Just QUIT!
2006-08-31 12:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋