Okay i was sitting in english class. Its only the 3-4th day of 9th grade. And this girl walks in. She is never the type i was interested in. Why am i in LOVE?? Shes dresses like punk - peircings slit wrist and weird makeup and cloths. But shes perfect. Now for some reason all I'm into are girls who dress like her with dark hair. This is crazy and my heart is throbing. How can i get over this?
2006-08-31 12:01:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
wow some of u guys suck ***
2006-08-31 12:10:23 · update #1
You have the typical crush. You have to act like the feeling is no big deal and be cool about it and just walk up to her and talk to her like you're doing her a favor. Keep that attitude and you'll have her attention.
If you act like a peon who worships her as a queen, she'll give you a peon's worth of work to do and will never respect you.
You have to focus not on your attraction to her but rather, focus on how you can make her respect you. If you have a woman's respect, you pretty much have the keys to her......."queen"-dom.
2006-08-31 12:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're impressed, not really in love. I have the same feelings for a asian boy wright now, he's not a punk but a gothic, with his long hairtail and dressed in black gothic leather he's completely different from other boys I ever met. Also the fact his so unreacheble (constantly beiing surrounded by his friends) makes it even worse. you're, sorry we're impressed by someone who broke out the normal bounderies. He's aware he's got a crush...hiding it for his friends. Maybe tomorrow it's gone, or we meet...but don't be hasty. Imagined yourself already in a punk outfit, did you not?
2006-09-01 11:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by can'tknowitall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obsessed.... not in love, think about it you already have a predisposition towards girls that meet a certain criteria aka the dark hair and whatever else happens to float your boat.
Why are questioning this? why do you want to "get over it"?
Is she unapproachable? Are you afraid of what she might say to you? Be bold and talk to this girl and try to get some perspective, you might just learn something about yourself, strike up a friendship etc.. It's the things we DON'T DO in life that we later regeret.
As to the why in "Why did this happen"? each person is vulnurable to something my friend, apparently this girl is your kryptonite. Pull yourself togethor and give something new a chance.
2006-08-31 19:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by xNocturnex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is one of the most sweetest questions i read yet...sorry to use the 'sweet' word...but it just is so refreshing..because it brought back some wonderful memories...don't get over it...enjoy it and hope you get the girl xo
2006-08-31 19:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with it and see where it leads you. Nothing you've said makes me believe you need to worry too much!
2006-08-31 19:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't try to get over it. Enjoy it...Love is a wonderful thing!
2006-08-31 19:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to get to know another girl.
Also you can try imagine her doing something really gross, but it might get you love her more, because your wear....
2006-08-31 19:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Carlos A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't get over it you just letting flow, You still young it"s just puppy love.
2006-08-31 19:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by ronrmrll 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a slut. bang her and move on
2006-08-31 19:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how cute. lol - just wait it out
2006-08-31 19:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋