Most men want it as soon as possible. In reality, would you respect a woman who would have sex with you with in a week or less of meeting you? Where do you draw the line between tramp o rama and virgin nun? Women feel free to advise.
2006-08-31 11:57:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nikki,
Most dudes dont expect to actually get the booty even though they are asking, but if you give it up aint nobody going to say no. You need to respect yourself so you dont get played...and that I laa you shat is for the birds just the male organ talking
2006-08-31 12:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by bfreshness16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really a matter of time, although within the first 48 hours is probably too soon.
It depends on how often you see the person since the first meeting and how much of a connection you have. Meeting at Joe's Bar and doing the deed on the next date is probably not going to gain you respect either. I'd make him wait 4 or 5 dates ( about 3 weeks)
Good luck
2006-08-31 12:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by richgrud 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its just a hook up (someone you met in a bar or nightclub) then the sooner, the better. I wil still respect her, but wont date her, after all its just for fun.
If it's someone I am dating I think she should make the guy wait to at least the second date. The first date should be about getting to know each other. But being intimate its also part of getting to know eachother.
I once dated this girl, she was awesome and a lot of fun but after 7 weeks there was still no sex. When we finally had sex... she was so bad at it... it didnt last long after that
2006-08-31 12:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really think that you will get a honest answer from a guy? You already know the answer. If you want to have fun, but aren't too concerned with respect or longevity with him, sleep with him right away. If you want something special....wait.
By the way. It itsn't up to the guy, it is up to you. Don't give the guys any more power than they already have. Keep your power. If you don't understand what I mean by that....the older you get the more you will.
2006-08-31 12:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, Is that a trick question If it was possible i would have sex with her before i met her. But in actuality it all depends on the connection and if she is willing lol. You already know the answer to this question. And the answer is if i meet her at 8 tonight then i would have had sex with her at 8 last night.
2006-08-31 12:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by souless one 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll be honest,i don't agree,but most of my friends say on the first date is to soon,they will stop seeing her or kick her to the curb,so be hard to get for better results without being hurt emotionally,hope this helps,good luck!
2006-08-31 12:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by jose_valle76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To soon? I don't think there is a to soon but I would not feel comfortable with someone right away hell..got to get to know her first. Course if I just wanted an FB then I would not care if I knew her or not as long as I know she is clean.
2006-08-31 12:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by jaybrdxxx69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is all up to chemistry, and you you hit it off the first time you meet , Honestly I would have to say at least one month before you even start moving into the sex part of your relationship
2006-08-31 12:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by eagle9500 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
two soon - before the third date
nothing is too late in my opinion, women who hold off in today's society should be respected...sex to me is something you do with someone you love, not just because you've been out with them for 2 weeks or gone out with them twice or anything like that
but i guess thats just me
2006-08-31 12:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by mtugodfath3r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...it all depends on how u get the women to have sex with u....i mean when is not an issue...but he important thing is what it takes for the gurl to give it up...i mean we are all super horny creatures..and all have whore in us....but like i said if she gives it up easy then its a no go...but if she has to get alll seduced and worked up and the situation is right and the partner is very attractive...then its ok...
2006-08-31 12:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋